XOXO

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Posted by jenny2penny

so

Do I tell my girlfriend....
...but then she might never trust me to meet her future guys friends (she always joked that if I met a guy she liked he go for me instead).

What if he tells her first? Then how do I look not telling her?

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i would NOT tell her, especially if she jokes like that it's an indication that she is insecure...

move on, don't think twice about this guy, he sounds like a turd.

for the BF... what a jerk.


and for the bouncers....


What a night

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Posted by september2004

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Posted by jenny2penny

so

Do I tell my girlfriend....
...but then she might never trust me to meet her future guys friends (she always joked that if I met a guy she liked he go for me instead).

What if he tells her first? Then how do I look not telling her?

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i would NOT tell her, especially if she jokes like that it's an indication that she is insecure...

move on, don't think twice about this guy, he sounds like a turd.

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def do no tsay anything unless it happens again. If he says something first, as dishonest as it si, you could always play it off like he was calling you cuz he felt bad that the other guy didn't.......

what a mess

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Posted by jenny2penny
Maybe just offer my advice to look elsewhere???

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she'll eventually figure it out...

if you say something you run the risk of losing her friendship. be supportive, but don't offer opinions if not asked, and even if asked try to be as PC as possible. it's tough, but no one is going to change her mind except for her, no need to add insult to injury...

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Posted by jenny2penny

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Posted by HearzBellz
def do not say anything unless it happens again. If he says something first, as dishonest as it si, you could always play it off like he was calling you cuz he felt bad that the other guy didn't.......

what a mess

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I ws going to wait too...I just feel so bad, because I know she likes him. She's too eager to meet someone, looks too heard, and goes for all the 'mentaly unavailable' ones.

Maybe just offer my advice to look elsewhere???

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I think that's good advice to 'keep looking' but I wouldn't say anything negative and I think it's good advice not to say a/t about her BF incident. Normally I advocate for telling but if she's insecure and really wants a BF then she may find you to blame. Good luck!