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AJsMommy122 Posted: Oct 18, 2004 07:52 PM

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azoodie Posted: Oct 18, 2004 07:54 PM

Re: Would you be annoyed...

yuck! i could see how that would get on your nerves!!!!!! don't worry gf...she can have the hall but you'll have THE GLORY!!!! muahahahaha!!! she can have your leftovers

DebMaher Posted: Oct 18, 2004 07:57 PM

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Yes, sloppy sandcastle seconds.
Been there, done that.
;)

AJsMommy122 Posted: Oct 18, 2004 07:59 PM

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you girls are too sweet
and funny

randella Posted: Oct 18, 2004 08:00 PM

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I would def be annoyed.. but, afterall you are first.. Make sure to keep all your plans close to you.

prncssrachel Posted: Oct 18, 2004 08:00 PM

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Well, your wedding will be first, regardless, so she will look a little ridiculous. She was obviously jealous when she said that to you!

February05 Posted: Oct 18, 2004 08:01 PM

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imitation IS the best form of flattery... maybe she was jealous at first?

either way.. if she decides to do it at the same hall, YOU did it first, so you're cooler than she is!!

GettingMarried0402 Posted: Oct 18, 2004 08:06 PM

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I would be annoyed too...how childish.
Don't let it get too you...she was problably jealous at first and now she just wants to be like you. You should be flattered that she wants to be like you.

If she plans her wedding there too people will always remember it as 'isn't that where soon2bmz got married first?'

DebMaher Posted: Oct 18, 2004 08:10 PM

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Exactly, won't it totally suck for her because all the same people will be there saying, oh, remember how SoontobeMrsZ did this -- it was so pretty and comparing. She is being dumb.

Bunnymonkey Posted: Oct 18, 2004 08:58 PM

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yes, i would be annoyed - but you SO win in this case! Don't let her get to you - she sounds insecure.

alexlynn7 Posted: Oct 18, 2004 09:29 PM

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i would be totally annoyed!! not to be catty or petty, but your wedding will be first, so if she has hers there just a few months afterwards that will look SO lame on her part...

ok, maybe i did mean it to be catty and petty

ravens_bride Posted: Oct 18, 2004 09:33 PM

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My FH's BM had his reception at a hall I adore but even though they will celebrate their 2 year anniversary a month after our wedding we wouldn't do it. You have the glory being first.

Ronkonkomonga Posted: Oct 18, 2004 09:49 PM

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Yeah I probably would be annoyed if I didn't have a good relationship with her.

But I was thinking if it were my sister, or my FSIL - I probably wouldn't care - I would wish them the best and help out.

ckgmwedding Posted: Oct 18, 2004 11:35 PM

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She looks like a copycat if she does that- na-na- I am being a

diamondgrlie Posted: Oct 19, 2004 09:28 AM

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Yes, I would be totally annoyed and I would probably remind her of what she said to me about the hall.

Sweetpea130000 Posted: Oct 19, 2004 09:38 AM

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I would probably be annoyed, but like others said - you are there first, she looks like she is copying and can't make decisions on her own and yours will be better anyway!

KimberlyBride Posted: Oct 19, 2004 09:43 AM

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I agree I would be very annoyed. But there is a positive to that. The Sandcastle is an awesome reception hall and you would be able to attend a wedding there. Most brides would love to be a guest at the hall they are getting married in to see what the guests experience. Either way you are going first sooo...na na na na to her! haha

Kim

Darcy Posted: Oct 19, 2004 12:46 PM

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I would have to say that while you may be annoyed, look on the bright side. If she has it there, it wont be anything new to those that went to your wedding. So yours we wow them more

littlebookworm4 Posted: Oct 19, 2004 12:54 PM

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I don't know but if it was me I'd make sure that I picked a different place!!!

stacy&joe Posted: Oct 19, 2004 03:48 PM

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A relative of mine, who is recently engaged, makes comments like that, too. I think insulting anyone's choice of hall to their face is rude and annoying. However, I chalk comments like that up to insecurity and immaturity. Clearly, she's missing what a wedding is really all about. I feel sorry for her. I would brush it off - you've got too much going on to worry about her insecurities!