XOXO

I hope everything is ok Jenny!

jenny what happened!!! im so sorry whatever it is!!!! we love you!!! and r here for you

You need to cut the negativeness out of your life!
Cheer up.....

Sorry to hear that you are feeling down.

for you!

i said it b4 i will say it again babe,,,,dont worry about the $$ he owes u and cut ties with him..for ur own mental health u hafta cut him out of ur life 100% or it will always b 2 steps fwd 3 steps back!!!

Honestly my feeling is if he is contacting you and you have not contacted him and the reason he is calling is for ridiculous reasons he still has feelings for you and this is his way of not loosing you completely. He looks for reasons to call you and talk to you. I would not anwer the phone or return his calls for your own good. Everything happens for a reason...hopefully you will become stronger from this and know what you want and more importantly what you do not want. I know the holidays are a hard time I have been in your situation also and It is so hard, but you have to keep busy and do not let it bring you down...look at the holidays in a new light appreciate all the little things...you will be ok..hang in there

jj04 said it perfectly.

' he is contacting you for ridiculous reasons he still has feelings for you and this is his way of not loosing you completely. He looks for reasons to call you and talk to you. I would not anwer the phone or return his calls for your own good. Everything happens for a reason...hopefully you will become stronger from this and know what you want and more importantly what you do not want. I know the holidays are a hard time I have been in your situation also and It is so hard, but you have to keep busy and do not let it bring you down...look at the holidays in a new light appreciate all the little things...you will be ok..hang in there '

IT IS TRUE.

Hey, if you want me to set you up on a blind date with a 25 yr old I will he seems to be in a funk too.

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Posted by jenny2penny

it's so frustrating, because through it all, I defended him, the choice he made, etc. and yet he still can S*it on me.

How can a person be so cruel to another???

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time to cut your losses, cut him off, don't answer his calls or anything like that

it is the only way you can move on

i didnt mean to sound harsh babe, but i m in the same exact boat as u and i truly will never move on if i have any contact with my ex..for my own sake i do not,..i pretend he is dead..makes life much easier... lol

Here is some hugs to my fellow capicorn
Like the rest of the ladies of said I think the best thing to do now is to just not take his calls. As hard as it is you should just try it for a while and see if he stops calling.