XOXO

prncssrachel Posted: May 26, 2005 08:07 PM

Re: Poll: When did you have your first fight with S.O?

After 6 months. I'd say almost 10 months later. We still don't fight much.

sarahthegreat Posted: May 26, 2005 08:10 PM

Re: Poll: When did you have your first fight with S.O?

we don't really 'fight.' we disagree about A LOT of things, but nothing that would lead to a huge argument

Marcie Posted: May 27, 2005 08:55 AM

Re: Poll: When did you have your first fight with S.O?

We never really had fights we had arguments that were over within a couple of minutes. The first time we ever got into a big fight was the day that he was moving in with me oh boy it was a big one!!!!

This was about a month after we were engaged

palebride Posted: May 27, 2005 09:34 AM

Re: Poll: When did you have your first fight with S.O?

We've never had a big blow out sreaming match type argument - but we have little debates and disagreements

usuk2004 Posted: May 27, 2005 09:51 AM

Re: Poll: When did you have your first fight with S.O?

I don't remember when it was exactly - but it was several months into our relationship, I was actually surprised it took that long We fought because he was making me dinner and I kept saying 'I don't want any of that.' or 'Don't put any of that in mine' and he got really really upset. I remember I was so surprised that he blew up over something so small, but I guess I hurt his feelings.

xjulietx Posted: May 27, 2005 09:56 AM

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Dh and I were friends before dating and we had a huge fight about him dating a friend of mine (we both secretly wanted to date each other but didn't know how to say it, so he dated someone else who was flirting with him). We didn't speak for 10 months and then when we started talking again we realized we wanted to be together. We were so happy to be reconnected that we didn't fight for almost a year of dating.

JimmysBride Posted: May 27, 2005 09:58 AM

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I don't remember exactly but I'm sure it was within the 1st three months...

I find your last choice interesting - 'we never fight, we are the perfect couple'... I would think there was something seriously wrong with a couple who has NEVER fought... I would think them to be far from perfect if that were the case.

Ladybug63 Posted: May 27, 2005 10:42 AM

Re: Poll: When did you have your first fight with S.O?

I'd say probable around the 6 month mark but it could have been a bit sooner so I picked 3-6.
We moved in together after 3 months so we threw ourselves into fighting situations sooner I guess.

marymoon Posted: May 27, 2005 10:45 AM

Re: Poll: When did you have your first fight with S.O?

Posted by JimmysBride

I don't remember exactly but I'm sure it was within the 1st three months...

I find your last choice interesting - 'we never fight, we are the perfect couple'... I would think there was something seriously wrong with a couple who has NEVER fought... I would think them to be far from perfect if that were the case.

I have to agree. No one agrees 100% of the time, and if they do, someoen is hiding something or keeping feelings under wraps for the sake of peace. I'm not saying people showuld throw things at each toher and yell and scream on a daily basis, but I'm pretty sure fighting/arguing is healthy, and handled properly ca only make your stronger. I'm sure FH and I fight all the time. I don't even notice. We always make up and we don't worry about it. We've have a crisis or two in our relationship, but I don't think that's the same as a fight. And even those have made us stronger.

beautyq115 Posted: May 27, 2005 05:39 PM

Re: Poll: When did you have your first fight with S.O?

Within the first 2 months...he didn't want me to go on a girls only trip that I had planned before I met him...we fought up until the trip and while I was on the trip (via cell phone) it made for a very unpleasant vacation

Butterflybride Posted: May 27, 2005 11:52 PM

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It was after a couple of weeks. We rarely fight, but when we do, they can be pretty awful, because we're both such emotional people.

Riss44 Posted: May 28, 2005 12:41 AM

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Not to sound like a goody goody, but I never had an all out fight with him. The only time I remember was way back in the day when we were only friends (in high school) and I got sooo jealous that he was with this other girl. We all went to Jilians to hang out and he ditched me for this other girl. I ended up calling him an A-hole when he drove me home. It was a mess. So since then my FI will joke around that he was the A-hole. Other than this, we never fought as a couple. We nit-pick at each other, but never fight. Guess I'm greatful in that sense.

Marissa