dw moved in with me only after 6 months of dating... with 3 of the 6 months w/o seeing her becuase of her stupid parents..
they are adults and will learn if it's right or wrong. you fully don't grasp moving in until you are into a few months. i remember life was perfect for the first year...then things became clear
does he have a situation where he needs to move in?
BMD'sPeanut
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While I personally wouldn't---I'm sure other people would.
My cousin had a long-distance relationship wtih her husband for 7 years before they got married. I am sure if she had the opportunity beforehand to move in with him, she would have.
Shorty McBride
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Hey, if they're going to spend all their time together ANYWAY, why not just pay one rent?
jenny2penny
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DCSAAB06
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My friend met a guy while in Cancun...he was from Boston, she from NY. They continued to talk and date for the next 3 yrs...going back and forth to each other. They happen to be engaged now but before that she decided to move to Boston to be w/him and live together. Although it is different but that was a way to be together more. If anything, they fought more being away from each other, being fustrated and well, she states...its easier to hang up a phone then to walk away from someone.
They are completely happy and getting married next July
So, sometimes it works out for the good and better to find out now that they cant/can make it together.
N.Y.bride
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I did and things were great until a year and a half later he cheated on me. If it doesnt work out they can always move out. The only thing I would be concerned with is the lease. Whos name is on it. If it doesnt work out with him and hes not on the lease she could kick him out, but also if hes not on the lease and he decided to stop paying shed be screwed.
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I guess I think it's not a good idea because they have not even dated in the same state for more than 2 weeks
I dated my husband for two years long distance before I moved half way across the country and moved in with him. I went from seeing him once, maybe twice a month for a weekend to every day. We had never spent more than 12 days in a row together befroe I moved. It can work. I am not saying it was easy initially but I think we have a really good marriage. Just my .02 cents.
