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Sunrise813 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 09:52 AM+
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SeptBride70 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 09:53 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

i'd be like i'm up to GETTING MARRIED to someone who is NOT you!!! LOL

i'm so mean!!!
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Sunrise813 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 09:55 AM+
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EJSD2006 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 09:56 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

email him back with your wedding photos and leave it at that!
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sr081906 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 09:59 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

I would not email him back. What's the need!

You never know if he is a psycho that kept thinking about you all this time.

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Sunrise813 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 10:04 AM+
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sr081906 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 10:09 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!


Posted by Sunrise813


Posted by sr081906

I would not email him back. What's the need!

You never know if he is a psycho that kept thinking about you all this time.



Well he isn’t a psycho, but he is way too persistent. He calls our apartment every once in a while and hangs up the phone when we answer. He isn’t a stalker, he is just needy. But I have no desire to speak to him, but part of me would like to tell him to stop trying to contact me, but I feel like that is opening the door, no communication is better. DH agrees.



You just answered the question. The guy is calling you and hangs up. That's not just an old flame who found out about you in classmates.com and emailed to ask 'what's up?' 'long time no see'. That's not needy in my eyes. Neither does it sounds 'normal'. You dated him many many years ago.

I would not talk to him. Anything you say would start opening a communication like you said.


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Smiles111 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 10:11 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

I had an ex tell me he was a little mad at me for getting engaged b/c he still had a little crush on me.

shoulda thought a' that before you broke up with me!
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Smiles111 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 10:13 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

oh sorry, i hadn't read the rest of the posts...... I didn't know he was persistently bothering you, I thought we were just sharing funny ex-bf reactions.
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Sunrise813 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 10:14 AM+
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Mandyin2007 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 10:14 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

It's not even worth your time or energy!
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Smiles111 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 10:20 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!


Posted by Sunrise813


Posted by Smiles111

oh sorry, i hadn't read the rest of the posts...... I didn't know he was persistently bothering you, I thought we were just sharing funny ex-bf reactions.




No need to apologize, I kinda was.



oh good....... WHEW. thanks
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tomsgirl07 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 11:00 AM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

He still seems a little stalker-ish! He needs to give up and leave you alone. I wouldn't even bother to respond, either. I have an ex like that. He'd call me every now and then, and a couple of times he said he'd driven by my parent's house to see what they're up to or if I'm visiting them. He used to stalk their house a lot more- I think he's finally given up after 14 years. Still creepy, though!!

Does he know you're married?
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Sunrise813 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 11:18 AM+
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ChiBaby Posted: Jun 13, 2006 12:37 PM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

How odd As soon as I got married a few weeks ago...my ex from 5 years ago emailed me through hi5...
He cheated on me also...initially I emailed him cos I was estatic about my wedding and couldnt help but be elated but now come to think about it, its was not worth it...ceasing communication as I too believe its inapropriate to be in contact with the 'past'...
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SeptBride70 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 12:38 PM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!


Posted by alnem

email him back with your wedding photos and leave it at that!



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SeptBride70 Posted: Jun 13, 2006 12:40 PM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!


Posted by Smiles111

oh sorry, i hadn't read the rest of the posts...... I didn't know he was persistently bothering you, I thought we were just sharing funny ex-bf reactions.



lol my ex was so depressed b/c he thought we would take a 'break' and then get back together and he wouldn't lose me b/c we had been together for three years but i met FH and fell instantly so that was that with the ex-- since then, he has lost over 100 pounds, hardly eats, is depressed all the time-- YIKES!! i can't feel bad, he kissed another girl and never appreciated me-- so it was meant to be for me to find FH.
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Mooshyboo Posted: Jun 13, 2006 01:04 PM+
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Re: Ex-Boyfriends!

that is 2 funny!
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