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No, I have a FH that says he DOESN'T want to do anything, and then when I make a decision on my own, has something to say about it!![]()
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I'm in the same boat as Nina!
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I soooooooo agree! He feels left out of everything so he says so i give him little run downs to take care of...for example, call the priest tomorow to set up an appointment. Think it gets done??? Nope! He always says I want to be a part of this too but when I make him a part of it he does nothing! After he complains he then says well it is a 'girls day anyway' Men are nuts!!!!!!!!!! But you gotta love them! ![]()
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I'm in the same boat as Nina too. My FH doesn't want to hear about anymore planning! It's ok though. He thinks its more my day anyway.
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Same here!! FH says you know what looks best and it will make you happy, but once I decide I want to do this and start the reasearch on it, I hear: How much is it? Is it worth it to spend that money when we can put it to something else? Sometimes I want to place tape on his mouth so I don't have to hear a response. ![]()
Besides then a heated discussion begins...
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Same exact situation cw0904!!!!! I'm not happy that others are going thru this, but I'm so glad that I'm not alone!
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my fiance likes to ask what he can do to help, and then when I tell him he'll say something like, 'can't your mom do that?' or 'its too early to do that.' Its like he thinks I'm going to say, 'Yes, I do need your help, could you please do me a favor and go to a sports bar and watch the NBA finals. We really need to get that done.'
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Ladies we can all agree that our men went to the same school for engaged men ![]()
My FI does absolutely NOTHING!!!! but he wants to have a say in everything, mind you its after I have done all the leg work and all the research he wants to have something to say.
I give him the look and say, the decision has already been made I am just passing it by you so you can know what's going on, not requesting your approval here![]()
Sometimes I just want to scream at him and say, MR this is woman's business just smile and nod ![]()
He had us re-do our Save the Date cards b/c he came up with an idea after they were printed, thank goodness they were done for free. I now call him Johnny come lately.
That is why I cannot wait for the entire planning process to be over so we can really get to the good part, being man and wife![]()
I think in some ways they might feel as if we are having all the fun and they don't want to miss out on any, or if they are not going to have any of the fun with us they are going to try and mess it up for us, they are just little boys in grown men's bodies.
Remember when we were kids and the boys messed with us when we would not pay them any attention, this is the exact same thing that is happening now![]()
I give him the look and say, the decision has already been made I am just passing it by you so you can know what's going on, not requesting your approval here
That is why I cannot wait for the entire planning process to be over so we can really get to the good part, being man and wife
Remember when we were kids and the boys messed with us when we would not pay them any attention, this is the exact same thing that is happening now
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I am in the same boat as you all. He is always telling me to let him know what to do and when I do nothing happens. This week he has a list and we shall see. I am behind with things so he has no choice but to help me. It is very stressful at times. Hang in there all![]()
