oh i went through that 2 years ago i wanted a little girl so bad .. my son wanted a lil sister so bad too but i always said i was not be having another child unless i was married.. so I bought my bella (my yorkie) and my baby fever is gone especially with all the wedding planning...!!
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I think about babies too! especially their names, which is weird lol..but im OK w/ waiting a year or so until after we're married. I teach Kindergarten 19 kids, no assistant ,from sept. to june..that helps kill the time , believe me!!!!!
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well think of it this way... do you want to be pregnant in at or around your wedding? probably not? and then you want some time to just be married. So maybe a honeymoon baby wouldnt be bad because that gives you 9 months to just be married, ya know?
all i have to say is god bless birth control. lol.
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ok that came out wrong...its very understandable how you feel I would be the same way..god will bless you with a baby when you are married the time will be right
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Don't you worry, when the time is right you will be blessed with a child....You FH wants nothing but the best for you and his child, so look on the bright side, that when you do have children, there will be nothing to worry about and you can enjoy your bundle of joy!!!!!
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I totally have baby fever too! Fh and I are one of the last couples to be married so a bunch of our friends have babies. His sister had a baby a year ago and made me godmother and i have babysat him overnight so many times and it was like playing house with a baby. i love it BUT when he was little and getting up every 3 hrs to eat i was like how am i going to do this and work. its A LOT of work! but i definitely want them as soon as we are married and hopefully we will be ok financially b/c i know FH wants us to be before we have kids.....
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and mdawg AMEN to birth control.
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I am not even really around any children, its weird, i dont know why I have it so bad. Maybe its just by body playing with my head telling me it's time or something. LOL all i know is that i think about it every single day!!!
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Just think about how great it is going to be once you are mariied and 100% financially secure
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mdawg
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you should go invest in some birth control. lol!
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Posted by PRINCSS029X
I know...what sparked this was 3 months ago I got pregnant =( and we decided not to have it because we still live with parents and we want to be married first with a house. But my FH was REALLLYYYYY torn about it. He cried almost everyday while I was pregnant. So thats why this is even worse on me.
I am soooooooo sorry to her that I was in the same situation hun so I completely understand where you are coming from. It happened to me 3 yrs ago and completely tore me and FH up. Looking back on it now, we know we made the right decision, but I still think about it all the time. When I was on vacay looking at all the mommies and daddies playing with the lil ones in the pool, I got upset thinking that our lil one would have been 2 already. Its very sad, but we both knew we couldn't have done it at the time
Time heals all... By the time you guys are married, you will be able to be much better parents. Just think of all the things you wouldnt be able to provide for the child. All the lil extras of life... Both of you want to be able to give that lil one the best life possible... I know I wouldnt be able to do that 3 yrs ago, nor can I do it now! Life flies by, You will be at the mommy point before you know it.. Dont rush it
If you need to talk more, just FM me
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i am sorry to heard that it must be one of the hardest things you ever had to do.
thanks god i never had a scare i dont know what i would of done i dont even want to think about it.
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bump.
I barely have a chance to come on here during the day anymore. damn job!
yes i AGREE-all of my friends are having babies or have kids already and im not even married yet. I told FH i want a baby before we get married!! but he told me im crazy we;re going to wait till after we get married..
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Just remember good things are worth waiting for! FH & I want a baby more than anything in the world... but we know when the time is right we are going to be able to give that baby anything it wants and needs.... thats the way it should be... dont rush take this time to just enjoy eachother because once that baby arrives, your whole like is going to take a complete 360
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I'm gettin the baby fever also! FH's brother is here from colorodo and him and his wifejust had a baby boy. He's so cute I wanna bite him!