XOXO

Munchkn16 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 01:32 PM

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JoesFutureWife Posted: Dec 17, 2007 01:36 PM

Re: So frustrated with FSIL! Long rant

I dont even know what to say!!! I will however give you a hug! That situation is terrible and so unfair to you and FH!

nifheim Posted: Dec 17, 2007 01:36 PM

Re: So frustrated with FSIL! Long rant

I can understand your frustration but i would keep her as a bm that has no part in the wedding except for walking down the aisle and takes a few pics with you.

Sometimes it best to do that and just ignore everything. If she doens't go for her dress - then she is out and tell fh that. If she doens't shave her pitts make her get a bolero jacket short sleeves. We are in america and we shave under our arms and hippie or not I am forgivale to anything but not hairy pitts.

Butterfly123 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 01:41 PM

Re: So frustrated with FSIL! Long rant

How did she react when you invited her to be a BM? Sounds like she really doesnt want the responsibility and you should ask her if she would rather not be one...

kristin597 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 01:43 PM

Re: So frustrated with FSIL! Long rant

Posted by nifheim

I can understand your frustration but i would keep her as a bm that has no part in the wedding except for walking down the aisle and takes a few pics with you.

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Totally agree. Dont let her unwillingness to participate aggrivate you. Its sad that she doesnt want to do anything - her loss!

mariaobride Posted: Dec 17, 2007 01:44 PM

Re: So frustrated with FSIL! Long rant

she seems like a very complicated person someone like that is only going to continue to cause aggrevation I would tell her it clearly looks like she has no interest in being a apart of you & her brothers big day maybe she should not be in it at all....