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Abby2678 Posted:

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where is it...lol...no i wouldnt tell ehr obviously there is a reason she picked that hall whether it be because of price or maybe someone knows someone...but that stuff you keep to yourself...

jteach711 Posted:

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When it comes to rh's its about personal preference and who are you to tell her that you do not like the place. It is not about you, its about her and obviously she likes it so why would you even consider saying anything.

panjay Posted:

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I think it would be extremely rude to tell her you don't like the place. She obviously likes it and that's all that matters.

MrsJ08 Posted:

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I wouldn't say anything negative...especially if she already booked it. Maybe its what she can really afford. You dont want to stir things up with your friend. As long as she likes it I wouldnt say anything bad
laura33 Posted:

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Posted by Abby2678

where is it...lol...no i wouldnt tell ehr obviously there is a reason she picked that hall whether it be because of price or maybe someone knows someone...but that stuff you keep to yourself...



my feelings exactly! she told girls i work with and after she left they all looked it up on line and starting trashing the place it was very mean of them,,,,i personally dont like the look of the place but have heard great things about the food
panjay Posted:

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Posted by jteach711

When it comes to rh's its about personal preference and who are you to tell her that you do not like the place. It is not about you, its about her and obviously she likes it so why would you even consider saying anything.



This is exacly what I was thinking but didn't know how to say it without coming off mean. It's not about you.
MrsJ08 Posted:

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my feelings exactly! she told girls i work with and after she left they all looked it up on line and starting trashing the place it was very mean of them,,,,i personally dont like the look of the place but have heard great things about the food


Thats their opinion and thats pretty sad that they did that, talk about immature. I think you should just leave it alone. You dont want to sound like a big mouth 'oh the girls were talking crap about your hall' It will make her feel so horrible
sophisticat13 Posted:

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I agree...another 'no' voter. I think that would only hurt her feelings. We all know it's hard enough to plan a wedding without people, especially our friends, telling us things (let's be honest...) we really don't want to hear. If she asks me directly, I would say yes and mention something positive about it that you like, and let it go.
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Posted by FutureMrsJ08



my feelings exactly! she told girls i work with and after she left they all looked it up on line and starting trashing the place it was very mean of them,,,,i personally dont like the look of the place but have heard great things about the food



Thats their opinion and thats pretty sad that they did that, talk about immature. I think you should just leave it alone. You dont want to sound like a big mouth 'oh the girls were talking crap about your hall' It will make her feel so horrible


That's so mean. Maybe they're jealous? So hard to know why people do these things...ugh!!
bluegreen08 Posted:

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definitely not. i would only mention something if she was still looking. then i might say, i heard X about hall Y, you might want to check when you visit. i wouldn't want to hurt her feelings in case she picked that hall, and definitely wouldnt say anything after she decided on it.

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