XOXO

luna bride x Posted: May 06, 2008 11:49 PM

.

bemyyoko Posted: May 06, 2008 11:51 PM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

I had a similar situation, a friend of mine seemed to ***** and whine that she wasn't in our BP and then when I finally did ask her she said she had to think about it, and then said no.

Give her a few more days to think about it, and then bring it up. She may have been really hurt and trying to decide if you are asking b/c you want her, or b/c you felt guilty, she may also be struggling with a pride issue of being asked later in the game.

luna bride x Posted: May 07, 2008 09:52 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

BUMP!!!

Kimbalina Posted: May 07, 2008 09:55 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

I picked the third option. Go with your gut!

KK Holiday Posted: May 07, 2008 09:58 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

honestly, this girl sounds like she wants attention and is acting SUPER immature.

i would just tell her nicely that since you never got back to me i can see that this isnt important to you so i'm going ahead with my original bridesmaids.

you shouldnt EVER feel pressured to have certain people in your BP. go with your gut instinct. good luck!!

futuremrsfab Posted: May 07, 2008 10:00 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

I am guessing that her feelings are still hurt... even though you asked her later on and you did the right thing, sometimes it takes people a bit to get over things. since you guys are good friends, I would tell her you want to grab a cup of coffee and then just talk to her about it good luck

Lil83108 Posted: May 07, 2008 10:06 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

I didn't select any of those answers from your poll. I think that you need to speak with her and find out what is going on. If she is a really good friend then you should hear her out and see what is bothering her or what is keeping her from making a decision.

bluekat16 Posted: May 07, 2008 10:09 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

I'm torn between #1 and #3 so I'm not making a selection. I do think you should speak to her and see what the deal is. She may still be hurt but at the same token you reached out because you saw that you truly hurt her feelings.

Future Mulligan Posted: May 07, 2008 10:09 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

Posted by KK Holiday

honestly, this girl sounds like she wants attention and is acting SUPER immature.

i would just tell her nicely that since you never got back to me i can see that this isnt important to you so i'm going ahead with my original bridesmaids.

you shouldnt EVER feel pressured to have certain people in your BP. go with your gut instinct. good luck!!

i agree....you shouldnt let anyone make you feel bad about your decisions - this is your wedding and its your decision who you want up there with you - nobody should make you feel bad for not asking them - its their fault for expecting it

mariaobride Posted: May 07, 2008 10:16 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

Posted by Kimbalina

I picked the third option. Go with your gut!

agreed

emomma17 Posted: May 07, 2008 10:17 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

I would probably come straight out and ask her, talking to her openly is your best approach!

Mici n KC Posted: May 07, 2008 10:36 AM

Re: BM drama. please read.. w/POLL

First off for her to assume she is in the BP is one thing, but to talk trash about your wedding day and stuff that you picked out is another. She is not any kind of friend. If she had a problem she should have said something to you from the beginning.