XOXO

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 06:51 PM

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Thanks girls...feeling better. You always know what to say! The bottle of Cab may have helped too!

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 06:53 PM

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You're not a baby at all Angela. I felt the same way...there was really no lead up or excitement until the day of the wedding..and even then, there wasn't that much. Just know that people are SO happy for you deep down and that the day will be amazing for you. We are all excited for you and if you need someone to go n last minute errands for you, I will happily do it!

MirabellaNYC Posted: Oct 20, 2009 07:03 PM

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las1 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 07:19 PM

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I am sorry you are not complaining or being a baby. You have a right to be upset. I hope you have an amazing wedding.

Just Cindy Posted: Oct 20, 2009 07:25 PM

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Your not a baby at all!!! This is a very emotional time!!!!

ttdiff11 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 07:29 PM

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aw im so sorry, ur def not a baby at all! ur wedding will be amazing, dont worry.

KittyGags Posted: Oct 20, 2009 07:56 PM

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

You're not a baby at all Angela. I felt the same way...there was really no lead up or excitement until the day of the wedding..and even then, there wasn't that much. Just know that people are SO happy for you deep down and that the day will be amazing for you. We are all excited for you and if you need someone to go n last minute errands for you, I will happily do it!

Lauren is so right (and it was so cute of her to offer to do stuff!)

I felt the same way because my MOH was in school and working full time and I did almost everything myself too!

You will have a wonderful day regardless of your current stresses!!!!!!!

And then you and your DH can meet your new niece or nephew! I can't think of two better things back to back!

little34 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 07:57 PM

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You don't sound like a baby....it hurts when people are not as excited as you were for their things...and not that your sisters are not excited for you they are just dealing with different things in their lives. With all the stress of wedding planning the most important thing I think I came away with was that as long as you and FH are happy, excited, in love, healthy, and raring to go that is all that matters. Big hugs coming your way...we are all excited for you!!!!

kcreagh Posted: Oct 20, 2009 07:57 PM

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Aww im so sorry you are feeling like this

I do know how you feel tho, all of my sisters (who were my bridesmiads) are all older and all have children, i never asked them to do much bc I knew they were all busy with the kids but at the same time it really made me sad. I felt like getting the dress etc wasnt as big a deal as I wouldve liked it to be

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 08:27 PM

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Thanks so much girls! It just feels so different. It's not that I NEED help...it was just so nice to do things together. Last weekend I went with my mom to a craft store to buy ribbon and before we got in the store she was saying she feels like she hasn't even helped. Fast forward to me walking toward the ribbon - she tells me she'll be in the wool aisle. It's stuff like that, you know?

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 08:27 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Thanks so much girls! It just feels so different. It's not that I NEED help...it was just so nice to do things together. Last weekend I went with my mom to a craft store to buy ribbon and before we got in the store she was saying she feels like she hasn't even helped. Fast forward to me walking toward the ribbon - she tells me she'll be in the wool aisle. It's stuff like that, you know?

Absolutely...you just want someone to be there for all of the exciting stuff and be excited about it!

little34 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 08:28 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Thanks so much girls! It just feels so different. It's not that I NEED help...it was just so nice to do things together. Last weekend I went with my mom to a craft store to buy ribbon and before we got in the store she was saying she feels like she hasn't even helped. Fast forward to me walking toward the ribbon - she tells me she'll be in the wool aisle. It's stuff like that, you know?

Oh...man!!! I am so sorry you are dealing with this! WE CARE!

MrsGRod09 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 08:29 PM

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I know how you feel when i picked up my dress i was all alone and had to get into a cab with no one to share my joy with. I'm so sorry you have to go thru this it truly stinks

dazies1011 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 08:40 PM

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Ang you do not sound like a big baby and I know how you are sooo close to your sister. I know you are sooo happy for her right now and at the sametime wishing she was her for your big day but, she will be there in Spirit.
If there is anything you need last minute or just to talk you know my number and I'll be there for you.

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 08:54 PM

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i would prob feel exactly the same way!
try not to be too upset because your wedding day will make up for everything cuz it will be allllllll about you!!

Summertimegal424 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 08:58 PM

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ang dont feel like a baby its totally legit! im sorry you are feeling this way ...do you want me to make you an emergency kit? cause i will! :)

alli3131 Posted: Oct 20, 2009 09:07 PM

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Dont worry...I lugged my dress down that escalator all by myself too.

Im sure if your sisters situation was different she would be right there with you.