if they r wearing long dresses, then you won't see the shoes any way. I didn't ask them for this reason, as well as the fact that they could use something they already had to save their money. I just want the girls to be comfy! Hair I am letting them do whatever they want.
hey where did it go lol
well it depends. Its your wedding so its your decision to make and the BM understand so its fine. If the BM dresses are short, they should have the same shoes so it doesnt look weird. However if it cost them alot of money to get the same shoes, same hair style etc, it is a bit bridezilla-ish. For my BMs, I'm just picking the dresses and thats it (since the dresses will be long). My friend was ina wedding where they had to have all the same things like you mentioned and it cost her a ton! So in the end, its up to you..and anyway, you can be a bridezilla all you want, you're a BRIDE and its your big day!
i was in a bridal party once the bride made us buy the same shoes which were like 80 dollars and I honestly thought it was unnecessary b/c you didnt see our feet. Then she made me get my hair done in this place that did a sh*t job I said Y cant I go to my hairdresser and get the same style she said NO but then other Bms did I was like errrrrrrrrrrrr But its totally up to you and if your girls r Ok with it then do it. I had already spent sooo much money on that wedding I didnt want to spend anymore. LOL
Well if thats the case, thats not bad. A side ponytail should not cost that much. My friend had to do a crazy '60s updo. It was insane.
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I took it out bc the dumb pics didn't work !!!!
Ill fix it.
But
I forgot the most important parts.. The shoes part is ONLY if I go with short dresses, if I go with long (which I haven't decided between long or short yet) they can wear wear combat boots for all I care lol.
For the hair they can go to anyone they want! They can do it themselves! I just want side low ponys, with a flower in it.
I'm going to make sure the dresses and shoes are as inexpensive as possible..
