oh i am so sorry you are going through this; that sucks people are sooo screwed up sometimes!
don't worry you are not alone (i wont start with my stories or i probably wouldn't stop hehe), like the other girls said this a special time for you, the ladies that aren't going obviously don't know whats important in life and thats sad- not your problem!!
if your mom has to pay for the 30 make sure that food is wrapped up and ready to take home! heck i will come too! hehe
Jordan would love you forever if I could take some to him - just in case you need help :)