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sjr385 Posted: Jan 16, 2011 07:34 AM

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midnight26 Posted: Jan 16, 2011 09:01 AM

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I honestly don't know what my FH would think, but If it was reversed, and he had an ex staying with him...I'd freak out and totally be upset.

MrsJPH2012 Posted: Jan 16, 2011 09:13 AM

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FH is civil with his exes but not friends... I am also a very jealous person and if this ever came up I would freak the F out, but it wouldn't because, well they're not friends.

I'm not friends with my exes and not civil either, However, there is one guy friend of mine that I semi-dated and I know FH would flip over.

I think that a lot of people can maintain great relationships with exes, and some people can understand that, thats just not me.

I have a guy friend that I'm super close with, we never dated but I know if this situation happened to me FH would be totally cool with it. I think if FH knows this guy and you've hung out on your own before its fine. In my own situtation this would be bad news and nothing that I would ever try, and he better not even think about if the situation ever arose.

Has he said anything about it yet?

CaseyCase Posted: Jan 16, 2011 10:00 AM

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Yeah that totally would not go over well lol

courtneydemarco12 Posted: Jan 16, 2011 10:19 AM

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totally not go over well at all. And if it was reversed and he had an ex staying there i would freak out. FH is friends with his one ex and to this day it freaks me out that they are still friends. I hate her with a passion and when she came over to see our apartment and see our kitty and he let his ex hold the kitty i flipped out i became a mother lion. LOL

sjr385 Posted: Jan 16, 2011 10:28 AM

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MrsJPH2012 Posted: Jan 16, 2011 11:13 AM

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Has he said anything about it yet?

Oh, FH is fine with it. He knows my ex -- we all went to college together -- and while he doesn't particularly like him, it has more to do with the frisbee team they were on together than the fact that he dated me. We'll probably each have an ex at the wedding.

I really didn't like FH's now-exes in college before we started dating. But now that I've 'won' (as bad as that sounds), I trust him completely and I'm friendly with them.

Thats how FH views it too... like I shouldn't be bothered by his exes because he broke up with them and he's with me, so I 'won' but I can't wait until we move, lol

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Jan 16, 2011 11:49 AM

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I think thats GREAT that FH is totally ok with it! I have an ex that im still friends with and FH doesnt mind when we talk and occassionaly hang out (my ex is also engaged) but if he were to stay here while FH wasnt here I think he would DEFINATELY have a prob with it.. if the roles were reversed I would not be happy. I trust FH completely it would just be weird for me.