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Jennielee15 Posted:

Re: No RD?

We aren't, I don't think there is any point since we aren't having a rehersal. We also need the money his father would pay for that so we can afford the wedding! If we do anything it will be pizza or something little like that!

kshea23 Posted:

Re: No RD?

I'm not. Our hall won't allow us to have a rehearsal, so imo there is no need for a dinner. I'm giving out all the girl's gifts at the bachelorette party, and FH is doing the same at his bachelor party

Kuklitsa143 Posted:

Re: No RD?

Posted by ness83

We are still rehearsing at the church but then everyone can go home after. Plus everyone has work the next day and I work that day which is my last for the week. Money was also big factor why we decided to cancel but also our rehearsal is on Tuesday and the next day is going to be total insanity for us. I have to pick up my dress in NJ drive back to Queens pack the car with everything for the wedding (and hope it all fits so we don't have to make 2 trips) and take it to Long Island then back to Queens to pick up my uncle at the airport, plus FH has class at 8am that day. And really I don't feel like our BP or family with the exception of my mom did anything to help us with this entire wedding process so they don't deserve to eat on my dime sounds messed up but it's how I feel lol.



i AM OFF ON YOUR WEDDING DAY, SO LET ME KNOW IF YOU NEED ME TO BRING ANYBODY OR TAKE ANYTHING TO THE CHURCH, THE NIGHT BEFORE OR DAY OFF.

SORRY FOR CAPS (WORK RELATED)
pjc92980 Posted:

Re: No RD?

i was not planning on having one bc we arent having an actual rehearsal. But i posted on here earlier this week to get opinions and most ladies thought it would be a nice gesture to take the BP out to dinner so we are doing that.

jettahot Posted:

Re: No RD?

nope, we dont find it necessary!
smilesjc81 Posted:

Re: No RD?

i was going crazy tryingt o find something affordable and then I said TO HELL WITH IT!

I offered for people to just come over and have pizza and beer and wine...just chill out, and I'll hand out my attendant gifts and such

it's 2 grand we would rather save!!
MarryingMyBFF1110 Posted:

Re: No RD?

Posted by jettahot

nope, we dont find it necessary!


This.
Moonmist09 Posted:

Re: No RD?

we are doing an actualy rehearsal at the church and taking everyone out to eat afterwards.

LKatz1029 Posted:

Re: No RD?

Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

Posted by jettahot

nope, we dont find it necessary!


This.


agreed!!
DMLHeartsCRM Posted:

Re: No RD?

Nope, dont feel the need to if im not rehearsing at the rh. So its better this way, FH and I planned a small bbq so our parents actually can meet, nothing huge.

JLWSJC Posted:

Re: No RD?

Posted by Jennielee15

We also need the money his father would pay for that so we can afford the wedding! If we do anything it will be pizza or something little like that!


This. We're going to invite anyone who wants to come back to FIL's house since they live right near church and we'll have pizza or heros or something...nothign crazy.
adelya21 Posted:

Re: No RD?

we arent either.

Mel-N-Az 2011 Posted:

Re: No RD?

We're skipping the RD and doing a morning after brunch / BBQ

The Cassie Posted:

Re: No RD?

im not.
getting married at the hall. so not having a rehearsal. So the dinner would be a waste of money
harts2976 Posted:

Re: No RD?

I am not. We don't have a rehearsal.I am having a bridesmaids brunch 2 weeks before and giving them their gifts then. FH is taking all the guys to an islander games and having hero and food here first and giving them their gifts then. A lot cheaper- Will cost us around 500

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