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Try not to worry.... I am sure that FH''s parents will definitely understand. It''s a part of your past that cannot be changed... and it was long ago.... I think you guys shouldn''t worry about it too much... you are so close to the wedding and you are like family now so something that happened so long ago should not stand in between you guys... You will be fine!! Chin up!

Keep us posted!! (Ha,) a little board humor for you!! OK, so that was corny and its probably been used hundreds of times before. But Im a newbie, so I get to get away with stuff like that.

I hope everything works itself out. Maybe once FH breaks the ice, you can speak with her also, so she can hear what you have to say. (dont know what kind of relationship you have with her. )

for Emely
I hope it goes well for you. Try not to stress too much, you cannot control their reaction. Even if they are a little suprised at first, they will get over it, especialy if you explain the circumstances to them.

Good luck!

If they loved you before, tehy will love you after they find out.

Don''t worry!

I wouldn''t worry too much. If his family loves you, they will love you regardless of your past. When they find out, just explain that you and FH thought it best to keep the past in the past and you did not feel it was an issue in your new life together. Good Luck!!

Maybe you should go and talk to her with FH with you. I think maybe to 'save face' if that''s a good way to put it you should be the one to break it to her. Explain why at the time you thought it was a good idea to marry and that you realized afterwards you made a mistake. And if FMIL flips out, then your FH should step in and explain why HE thought it was a good idea to keep it from them since it was his idea not to say anything in the first place!

Also make sure she realizes FH has known all along so she doesn''t think you were hiding it from him!

Otherwise I think you''ll be fine!!! Good luck!!!!