XP BHB~ Would you be upset...

njbound07 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 09:52 AM

XP BHB~ Would you be upset...

sorry I had to delete this. the person may be on this site.. not sure....

but thanks for all of your input.. I really appreciated it.

laural2979 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 09:54 AM

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Yes! When are you supposed to go on your honeymoon? If your friend really wants you in her wedding then she should have considered your schedule when she was planning.

rachie Posted: Sep 11, 2006 09:54 AM

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No --- only because I think that is what my best friend and I are doing..
Sometimes with pirces, and available dates it is hard

BrideChrissy Posted: Sep 11, 2006 09:56 AM

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I don't think I would be upset only because we would be able to go through the entire process together at the same time. I can understand why you would be, it is alot at once, if your on your honeymoon for 2 weeks then you would have to take care of everything in a very limited amount of time. I see both sides.

bellaro782 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 09:58 AM

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Hummm... I wouldnt be upset . yours is First.. & i think it would pretty cool to plan with my Friend but i would be feeling bad for my Guest who have to go to both... I mean I also think its alot for you just coming back From your HM to deal with the running around of a wedding .. But look at the plus side you have company with the planning ..

Mdolph6 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 10:02 AM

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My MOH is getting married 2 months after me...I know thats more time then what you are talking about but it may be fun for you guys to plan together.

njbound07 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 10:03 AM

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FDWedding07 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 10:04 AM

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I dont think it would bother me. I know someone who just had this happen to them. The day they came home from there honeymoon they had the rehearsal dinner that same night and the wedding the next day. It all worked out ok.

njbound07 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 10:18 AM

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it's not what you guys think... It sounds nice to plan a wedding with a friend... but that's not the situation... when I was planning she basically alienated me and now she wants to plan together... when I was briefly telling her stuff about my wedding.. she would cut me off and talk about her weddding plans..long before she was even engaged!... she never showed any interest in my wedding. while I don't expect too much interest afterall it is my wedding...that I understand.. but I could never talk about anyhting pertaining to the wedding w/out her sounding sour and upset.. all because she wasn't engaged yet.. her attitude was bullsh*t if you ask me!

rojerono Posted: Sep 11, 2006 10:42 AM

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It takes a lot to upset me! If she did it PURPOSELY to bug me... I might be pissed.. but there would need to be some hardcore evidence. Otherwise.. I wouldn't worry over it. Too many other things in life to stress over!

One of my friends is getting married the SAME day as me. And I know she is doing it out of spite because I did not ask her to be part of the wedding party.

It irritated me at first.. but I'm over it.

MnM52607 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 11:37 AM

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Fh's best friend (his best man) is getting married 3 weeks before us. We had our date chosen first. How about that one?

mycrayon1 Posted: Sep 11, 2006 11:42 AM

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Posted by BrideChrissy

I don't think I would be upset only because we would be able to go through the entire process together at the same time. I can understand why you would be, it is alot at once, if your on your honeymoon for 2 weeks then you would have to take care of everything in a very limited amount of time. I see both sides.

I agree. The planning would be a lot fun though!