xpost: Shower locations

Rec nice places for a rbridal shower that can hold 40 people

My mom is considering Fox Hollow, they are giving her the most bang for her buck, tons of food!
cheese and veggie display passed hor' doeveurs (however you spell it)
plated dinner
cake
belgian waffle with icecream
champagne punch, wine, soda

I like Chateau La Mer but the upstairs room is too big

mid long island would good like suffolk/nassau border but open to any suggestions

i want something pretty, with good food!