xpost...confusing officiant question
Ok, so some of you know this tale...but just to refresh:
FH & I were going to get married at the RH by an Episcopalian Reverend. However, three months before the wedding, we decided that we absolutely had to get married in a Church, but we really wanted the Reverend to be able to take part in the ceremony, because we really felt connected to him when we met with him.
So we have a Catholic Church that will allow the Reverend to take part. He cannot actually marry us, but he will do the homily and second reading. The Pastor of the Church will marry us.
I was thinking of tipping them both $50...does that make sense to tip them both the same?
FH & I were going to get married at the RH by an Episcopalian Reverend. However, three months before the wedding, we decided that we absolutely had to get married in a Church, but we really wanted the Reverend to be able to take part in the ceremony, because we really felt connected to him when we met with him.
So we have a Catholic Church that will allow the Reverend to take part. He cannot actually marry us, but he will do the homily and second reading. The Pastor of the Church will marry us.
I was thinking of tipping them both $50...does that make sense to tip them both the same?
