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Yikes! Invites!

Future Mulligan Posted:

Yikes! Invites!

Yikes, I just realized that I wanted to have my invites ready for mailing today........I didn't even realize that it was the 29th!

My RSVP is Nov 1 - is it ok that they go out October 4th? that is less than 1 month to RSVP sh!t
bluekat16 Posted:

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Look on the bright side maybe giving your guests less than a month to respons will mean less people that don't RSVP by the RSVP date.

I honestly think you'll be fine.

Future Mulligan Posted:

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im just glad we sent STDs so people know the date already....

i just didnt even realize that i planned on sending them already - time is flying
jennarose023 Posted:

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you'll be fine...people will still be a$$holes and send them in late (or not at all) but maybe the shorter time period will help the slackers...lol

missliss Posted:

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It's TOTALLY fine, don't worry. It's actually better, hindsight is always 20/20 and I see now that the more time you give them to RSVP, the more time they actually take to do it. This way they know they need to get them back to you ASAP.
GinaZ Posted:

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I think it is plenty of time- if you give people too much time they may put it aside for later and forget about it.

Future Mulligan Posted:

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i feel like im in la-la land one minute im stressing about them and then the next minute im saying we can do it tomorrow ---> that is the procrastinator in me!
cbcf Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i feel like im in la-la land one minute im stressing about them and then the next minute im saying we can do it tomorrow ---> that is the procrastinator in me!



i am the same way right now...im making my invites...they are almost done thankfully but i still need to do the envelopes. i was going to send them out on oct 4th but i dont know now haha my rsvp date is nov 10th so i am sure we will both be fine
JTsGal829 Posted:

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don't worry i did the same exact thing. I wanted mine to go out earlier.. i got them out almost exactly at the 2 month mark..which gave people just about 4 weeks to respond. With a week and half left til my response date i have 88 out of 203.. but i dont think sending them out earlier would have made a difference!!! The people who've been saying they were coming for over a year are the ones who haven't sent back the RSVP yet and the ppl i didnt expect to be on time i've already gotten..lol.

i think if i had given them even more time..they would have put it aside and totally forgot about it.. and no matter what..you'll still be calling stragglers in the end!! lol
twright5ny Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i feel like im in la-la land one minute im stressing about them and then the next minute im saying we can do it tomorrow ---> that is the procrastinator in me!



I have done the same thing....its bad when your FH has to remind you to do something....
thats happened to me a couple of times

I think its fine to get them out this weekend, not any later though
FinallyEngaged Posted:

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It is totaly fine! I sent out my invites Septermber 6th and the RSVP date is October 1st

Future Mulligan Posted:

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Posted by FinallyEngaged

It is totaly fine! I sent out my invites Septermber 6th and the RSVP date is October 1st



ok good - i feel better! phew!
FinallyEngaged Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan


Posted by FinallyEngaged

It is totaly fine! I sent out my invites Septermber 6th and the RSVP date is October 1st



ok good - i feel better! phew!



No problem glad i could help

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