Yikes...I meant bachelorette party

Dani00518 Posted: May 13, 2003 06:35 PM

Yikes...I meant bachelorette party

would you be upset if your bachelorette party was over a month before your wedding. Must have had the shower on my mind since i just peeked at the registry

HearzBellz Posted: May 13, 2003 06:36 PM

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That is waaaaaaaaaaayyy different! That might annoy me. It kind of takes the excitement out of it!

LnP2003 Posted: May 13, 2003 06:38 PM

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that would annoy me - that's something that should be done like a week to two b4 the wedding!

JodiBabe Posted: May 13, 2003 06:40 PM

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That really would bother me too!!!

Jenn524 Posted: May 13, 2003 06:41 PM

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It would bother me as well, but if that's the only time all of my BM could be there, than I'd rather have it early.

Dani00518 Posted: May 13, 2003 06:43 PM

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Good...I'm glad you guys agree with me..it does take the excitment out of it especially since my fi will be going to vegas 2 weeks before the wedding for his bachelor party....i should be doing something at that time to not sitting home fiddling my thumbs.....AHHHHHHHHHHH....ok I feel a litttle better now that I vented

HearzBellz Posted: May 13, 2003 06:45 PM

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Wow.... maybe you can get some of them to just be with you (not as a formal Bachelorette party) while he is in Vegas.

jennbaby Posted: May 13, 2003 06:46 PM

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OK

I had my bacheloreet party Saturday (! week before, I loved it!)

Jenny5150 Posted: May 13, 2003 06:51 PM

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i don't think it's such a big deal to have the bachelorette party that far in advance. i can understand you not wanting to sit home while you FH is out raising hell, but i see nothing wrong with having it early.

LisaT Posted: May 13, 2003 06:57 PM

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I don't see it as a problem at all. Mine was a month before (due to scheduling), and I know plenty others were too. I never even considered that the date would detract from it in some way.

DH had his bachelor party 3 weeks before (they went skiing in Vancover) -and his brother, our BM caught pnemonia - the 3 weeks was barely enough time for him to recover.

In my opinion, you're better off with having more time than less. So you can relax and be less stressed about what you still have to do AND so you have time to recover from any unforseen circumstances.

jenny2penny Posted: May 13, 2003 07:00 PM

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Marcela1654 Posted: May 13, 2003 07:04 PM

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I wouldn't mind at all for the reasons LisaT posted and because my MOH lives in Virginia. I really want her there and if it means having the bachelorette party 1 month in advance I wouldn't mind.
For my friend's wedding, we had her bachelorette party a couple of weeks before her FH had his bachelor party, so on the day of her FH's bachelor party we took her out again. Nothing big, we just went to a club and had some drinks. Maybe you could do that.

Edited to say that FH's bachelor party will be in February 2004 (we're getting married in May 2004). They're going to New Orleans during Mardi Gras.

minniebride14 Posted: May 13, 2003 08:21 PM

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It wouldn't bother me at all. They are being nice enough to even have one for you - and maybe it's convenient for all of them. I would never be annoyed at a 'gift'. Besides, it spreads the fun out a little longer, rather than having everything right on top of each other.

Briana Posted: May 14, 2003 10:55 AM

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If it makes you feel better, mine is 2 months before the wedding!!!!!!!!!!!! A bit ridiculous. but I didn't have much say. My sisters were going to try and suprise me but I found out. They are doing it this early since my best friend will be in from Miami as will my FMIL. So I can't complain too much except that I am not that excited since it seems so early....