Your BP...

6 ladies (1 MOH, 5 BM)
6 guys (1 BM, 5 GM)
Me and FH

not too big, not too small!!

I have:
1 MOH (my older sister)
3 bridesmaids (all kids though, you guys might call them junior bridesmaids)
1 flower girl

1 best man (groom's teenage son)
2 jr groomsmen
1 ringbearer

And four guys--groom's two brothers, my brother, my nephew--carrying the folded chuppah down the aisle and holding it over us during the ceremony.

Yes, its not equal. Do I care? No. It's my wedding and I can do what I want. Haven't really figured out how everyone's walking back down the aisle, but I figure mostly singly, I'm not worried about boys escorting girls. It's a short aisle, who cares? And we're not doing 'announing the bridal party' or anything so that doesn't matter, and we won't do any boy/girl lined up photos.