Your first time...

tray831 Posted: Mar 31, 2005 11:40 AM

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He was my first
I was his second

And no it wasnt horrible at all, it hurt a bit, but he was patient.....

TracyInQueens Posted: Mar 31, 2005 11:40 AM

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One word: UGH

Not the experience itself, but the person I chose. Not worthy AT ALL. I get the willies to think about what I invested in that boy emotionally and physically.

Donna&Joe708 Posted: Mar 31, 2005 11:43 AM

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I don't even like to think about it! It was such a disaster, we were both virgins and it hurt like HELL!!! Thank God those days are over!

hbradio Posted: Mar 31, 2005 12:07 PM

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We were both virgins and we planned it!!! It was horrible - we werent like in love or anything (althought I thought I loved him ) we just did it cause 'everyone else was'.

FeliciaDA Posted: Mar 31, 2005 12:14 PM

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HE was much more experienced.. had been around the block a few times (was 7 years older than me, totally understandable) He waited a long time for me to agree to it,and he actually treated me with such respect and so gently that it wasn't a bad experience whatsoever.

I was a late bloomer in that area so I truly felt 'ready' for it .. as I said he waited many many months for me .. and threafter we were in a relationship for a looong time

Was it truly ENJOYABLE on a physical level? Well no.. But it was special !

katieshope Posted: Mar 31, 2005 12:17 PM

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It was my first not his, it was at my house, and the deed was good but after I couldn't stop crying!!! I have not idea what I was crying about!!! He got all freaked out!! But I guess it didn't freak him out too much because we are still together and getting married!!

Mishu Posted: Mar 31, 2005 12:36 PM

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It was both our first time and it wasn't as painful as I was expecting. It helped that we were both scared/nervous/happy/expirenced it togther

what I wish I could foget was when we were all finished...his very mean college roomate (who had left for a ski trip for the weekend and was already gone for 3 hours) walked in an called me a hore (SP?)

otherwise it was a great expirence

lolita4life Posted: Mar 31, 2005 02:12 PM

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OUCHY~

but at least it was with DH

princess23 Posted: Mar 31, 2005 02:50 PM

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I was, he wasn't. It was very, very painful. But it was with my first love and it wasn't horrible. I just remember thinking wow this really hurts

MrsTC Posted: Mar 31, 2005 02:53 PM

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a complete and total disaster.....

DrmnBlnd Posted: Mar 31, 2005 03:04 PM

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Posted by shorty the pumpkin

Both virgins, and it was actually pretty special. no bad stories/experiences here.

same here!

july06bride Posted: Mar 31, 2005 04:19 PM

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i was he wasnt...very regrettable...in every way

rafiki Posted: Mar 31, 2005 04:27 PM

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i laughed and said, 'that's it? that's what everyone talks about?'

ETA: we were both virgins. fun stuff all around.

HearzBellz Posted: Mar 31, 2005 05:52 PM

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...sucked

too quick, not that exciting, and the next few times were not that much of an improvement

got a new man very shortly after

dm24angel Posted: Mar 31, 2005 06:14 PM

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Was not painful at all, but wasnt exactly how can I put it...successful...I was also laughing ( from being nervous) and HE later told me I shouldn;t have LAUGHED at HIM, it didnt help....LOL...I thought he was nervous too, meanwhile he was like...WHAT a BIOTCH, laughing at me...

Hazeleyes33 Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:03 PM

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My 1st time, not my dh's first. His house, his bedroom. Don't remember everything (15 years ago!). I made him wait sooo long because, I guess I was scared because of being the '1st' time.

lbf404 Posted: Mar 31, 2005 09:59 PM

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Both virgins, and it was a total disaster.

jantany26 Posted: Apr 01, 2005 09:33 AM

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I was a virgin but he wasn't. I wish I would have waited for someone more special, but oh well.

bxgell2 Posted: Apr 01, 2005 12:24 PM

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We were both virgins and each other's first love, so it was special, but it went waaaaaaaaayyyy too quick. I wanted to try again right after, but he was so weird - he limited it to 3 times a week! Like we were being naughty or something Catholic boys... sigh....

wood2be Posted: Apr 01, 2005 03:51 PM

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It was far from romantic! He was the love of my life all through High School. What an a fool I was! No it didn't hurt at all, which is my answer to the 'Does Size Really Matter Thread!'