your 'first time'...was it

Original post by btrflygrl

May 06, 2004 12:01 PM

planned or spontaneous?

Mine was unplanned and believe it or not, I didn't know what was happening till it was too late/over and done with

diamondgrlie Posted: May 06, 2004 01:29 PM

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Planned because I wanted to wait at least 6 months. It was so stupid, both of us not knowing what the heck to do.

hbradio Posted: May 06, 2004 02:14 PM

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Posted by bedda26

To the ladies who said terrible and horrible...why is that so??? if you don't my asking that is.

Cause it hurt and the reasons I did it were all wrong.....

MrHostility Posted: May 06, 2004 02:23 PM

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Not planned, thought was planned for prom night the night before, and it never happened.

nferrandi Posted: May 06, 2004 02:47 PM

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Kind of planned. He was leaving for the Marines and we kind of knew we would do it before he left. It wasn't exactly pleasant, but I have no regrets.

Xelindrya Posted: May 06, 2004 02:54 PM

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Planned.. all set up for me to meet him at a friends house. The deed itself the very first time was SOOO disappointing. I wonder what the big deal was all about anyway. I felt lied to and cheated out on the 'big bang' (no pun intended).

He (being older and mature) was nice enough to take his time the next time to show me what the big deal was about.

Ah, the advantages of an older man.

Still I've had a hell of a lot better since then.

jennyhet Posted: May 06, 2004 03:06 PM

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Mine was unplanned and believe it or not, I didn't know what was happening till it was too late/over and done with

Same thing happened to me!!

smilealways Posted: May 06, 2004 04:40 PM

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Unplanned - kind of a dare actually. What a mess. hehe

VickiC Posted: May 06, 2004 04:54 PM

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Posted by Danielle&Scott

It wasnt planned....It just happened I guess...one night when we were fooling around. We were so young then. It was the first time for both of us.

This was me exactly. I thought it would happen soon, and we were only 17.

MrsBrad Posted: May 06, 2004 04:57 PM

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Posted by Dee7772

Posted by hbradio

Posted by BriBri529

Planned and TERRIBLE!

Mine too!!!!!

me three

my first time will be our wedding night and I am really scared that it is going to hurt!

OctGroom Posted: May 06, 2004 05:29 PM

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It was planned.. we knew.

We were sharing a room at her cousin's wedding. We were talking A LOT on the phone. She had begun divorce proceedings and it was just kinda taken for granted because as soon as we were alone we both made the first move.

We both knew we wanted to hook up.

But years later... I do regret it because emotions started to get involved and it was sooo wrong a time for her and me to hook up.

Though she rocked my world.. I wish I hadn't.

dm24angel Posted: May 06, 2004 06:41 PM

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unplanned....

Sunny Posted: May 06, 2004 07:09 PM

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planned.

gertyrae Posted: May 06, 2004 09:04 PM

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Totally planned! We had been dating for over a year and he waited until I was ready. BTW, it was so nice, he was so sensitive and caring. If I had known how bad it could be, I probably never would have broken up with him

holly231 Posted: May 06, 2004 10:12 PM

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Posted by bedda26

To the ladies who said terrible and horrible...why is that so??? if you don't my asking that is.

I was young, and dumb and naive...and after it was all done, I was like, Whats everyone so excited about THAT for...it did hurt, I think he was in a rush to get the 'deed done'

But man, Oh Man..what I have learned since that first time!!!

shelly3950 Posted: May 06, 2004 10:21 PM

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Planned by him, not me. He teased me all weekend.

soon2bmrs2004 Posted: May 06, 2004 10:26 PM

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Unplanned. I got a little tipsy and let my guard down and let my first love have it all that night. If I could go back the only thing I would change was my level of intoxication other than that at least I did it with someone I was in love with, whether or not he was in love with me is a whole other topic of conversation

marymoon Posted: May 07, 2004 01:03 PM

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Very veyr first time was unplanned. He'd just gotten to college. We'd both been thinking about it all summer, hadn't sad a word to each other. Then we were hooking up..alone w/o fear of aprent's interruption for the first time. And we hadn't really talked it out, but we wanted to know what it felt like. Well, FH had condoms, and so, shaking and laughing we tried it for a about a second, it hurt like hell, and then we just held each other. Suddenly it hit us 'We just had sex?' And it was this big deal, neither of us were ready to deal with that reality, but we felt increidble about the closeness anyway. A few months and a lot of talking later, we decided we were ready and we planned it and it was INCREDIBLE. It hurt, but it was so AMAZING and I'll never forget it and it makes me happy just thinking about it. We were so giddy and giggly on the way back from CVS>.and we glowed for the rest of the weekend!

Bebalina Posted: May 07, 2004 01:06 PM

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Posted by btrflygrl

planned or spontaneous?

Mine was unplanned and believe it or not, I didn't know what was happening till it was too late/over and done with

omg btrflygrl....same thing with me!