What would some of you think. I invited a colleague from my last place of work (higher authority) mainly because I thought we got on well and bump into eachother occasionally, she always asks about the wedding. Anyway decided to invite her as i thought it would be nice to do and gave her a call so she knew in advance. Gave her some deciding time. This was over 2 months ago. I tried to phone back but wasn't in and she hasn't returned my call since.
smplynluv
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I wouldn't worry too much about it... send her an invite as you normally would, what do you have to lose? postage? lol then you'll see. . . you have so much more to worry about and keep you entertained than to get worked up over one guest
gemma
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Maybe you're right. I suppose it's not there wedding either and they forget the importance.
gemma
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has anyone else had problems with people not replying to invites or being plain old rude?
I think I'm about to lose a so called friend over my wedding.
Kara and Todd
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IMHO, you haven't invited her yet. One not returned phone call doesn't mean your friendship is in jeopardy or anything like that.
Invite her if you want to. She may or may not come... but I wouldn't take it personally either way.
I hate to sound harsh, but this is something we all learn while planning our weddings: Our wedding day is not as important to other people as it is to us. I really wouldn't read so much into this situation.
stealthgroom
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IMHO, you haven't invited her yet. One not returned phone call doesn't mean your friendship is in jeopardy or anything like that.
Invite her if you want to. She may or may not come... but I wouldn't take it personally either way.
I hate to sound harsh, but this is something we all learn while planning our weddings: Our wedding day is not as important to other people as it is to us. I really wouldn't read so much into this situation.
Agreed. And honestly, the way our guest list is bursting, if someone can't make it, I'm just happy that we may be able to include someone else.
Seriously, I wouldn't stress too much about this one person, I'm sure you've got a bunch of other stuff to worry about. hang in there!
hth,
--the stealth groom
tricia3381
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Posted by smplynluv
I wouldn't worry too much about it... send her an invite as you normally would, what do you have to lose? postage? lol then you'll see. . . you have so much more to worry about and keep you entertained than to get worked up over one guest
very wbell said.
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has anyone else had problems with people not replying to invites or being plain old rude?
I think I'm about to lose a so called friend over my wedding.
Totally. our rsvp date is friday and we are still missing about 80! People are like, Oh we thought you knew we were coming...we didnt know we had to mail the card back...hahaha people can be so mindless sometimes!
