Just think, at 12:01am, you could finally say I'M GETTING MARRIED THIS YEAR!!! i did the same exact thing. just take it all in. don't have people convince you to do things that you don't want to. some people thought i should see dh before the ceremony...i didn't. it meant so much that the first time i say him was when i was walking down the aisle. no matter what the weather will be, you'll have a beautiful way. if something goes wrong that not under control, don't stress it. i lost my voice the day before. i didn't let it stress me out. i enjoyed my beautiful weddiing