z100

ok, on my way into work this am i was listening to Z100. They were talkin about how this ladies FH was going to LAS VEGAS for his bachlor party and she was pissed, she like i love him, and i trust him but i dont trust his frd.

Ok here is the question would you allow you FH to go to Las Vegas for their BP?

Me, I wouldnt let him bc why does he have to go away when he can have a stripper right here in his own home town?!?!

I would let him..he is a grown man, I can't really say no you cant do this..I totally trust him and his friends...

(i also think this is easy for me because he wold never be interested!)

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Posted by lmt245

I would let him..he is a grown man, I can't really say no you cant do this..I totally trust him and his friends...

(i also think this is easy for me because he wold never be interested!)

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Totally agree
My FH is going to vegas in august for his friends bachelor party. I trust him and there is no way i would tell him what to do..i wouldnt want him to tell me what to do. We're grown adults.

i actually was the one who was TRYING to organize his bach. party for vegas! since his best man was his brother who lives in FL (and didn't bother to do anything for it, since he's far away). so i tried my best to find rates for Vegas or even Miami or South Beach. but in the end, my brother took over and it was a local bach. party

IMO i don't quite understand the whole 'i trust my FH but not his friends' thing. cause the bottom line is that you don't trust something about your FH, in that he is going to be 'pressured' into doing something by his friends...so that means you don't trust HIM. whether or not he will do something 'bad' will happen, regardless of whether his friends are egging him on or not. if a guy is gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat....period. trying to tell him where he can go and what he can do...well i would think that would entice them more to wanna do it. not to mention it would have his friends saying things like 'Wow, you really are on a tight leash....she tells you to jump and you say how high? you're so whipped!' for guys, that is just so embarassing!

i really wanted my DH to have a great bach. party and enjoy himself, and he did, and i am glad!

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Posted by MJDoc12

i actually was the one who was TRYING to organize his bach. party for vegas! since his best man was his brother who lives in FL (and didn't bother to do anything for it, since he's far away). so i tried my best to find rates for Vegas or even Miami or South Beach. but in the end, my brother took over and it was a local bach. party

IMO i don't quite understand the whole 'i trust my FH but not his friends' thing. cause the bottom line is that you don't trust something about your FH, in that he is going to be 'pressured' into doing something by his friends...so that means you don't trust HIM. whether or not he will do something 'bad' will happen, regardless of whether his friends are egging him on or not. if a guy is gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat....period.

i really wanted my DH to have a great bach. party and enjoy himself, and he did, and i am glad!

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That is so true

I would let him go..... I trust him as well as his friends.... & I know even if one of his friends for some unkown reason tried to get him to do something stupid he wouldn't and then probably tell his friend to go f himself....

The whole not trusting friends... I could totally agree with that like yrs ago when we started dating. His best friend hated me (well we hated e/o really) so he would try to get FI to do things to hurt me... We actually now are really good friends so I dont have that prob... Me & best man have an agreement- The only stripper that FH will get is an extra extra large one as a joke (FH doesnt care for strip clubs)

The prob would have with FH going to Vegas is that I am a jealous person and have never been there and would love to see it too!!!!

FH plans on going to Montreal for a long weekend party. I have been there before & know its no big deal. I even went to a strip club with him while there!!

I keep telling Fh that I am sooo going to blow his party out of the water with mine, but I wont tell him what I'm doing b/c chances are his friends would steal my idea!!!! My girls better start saving up b/c I plan on doing one of those 3 day bahamas cruises

Hell ******* No FH is not going to vegas for his bach.party ....
Did any of you girls ever see the movie wuth cameron Diaz 'Very Bad Things' !!???!!??

Did you ever see the commercial 'what happens in vegas stays in vegas'? it scares me!

I hope he goes golfing :)

Yeah, I really despise that saying!!! I already told MOH that I want nothing to do with the typical bachelorette parties like strippers and bars... SoOo not me!!! Give me beautiful weather and a beach to lay on with a cold drink in my hand and i'm happy

I went to a Bachelorette party for my friend( I was a BM so I kinda couldnt NOt go) so we went to lucky changs in the city. It was alright i guess, but I dunno not that im a cheapo or anything-I just know I dropped more money onto the tab at the end of the night than a few people who were CLEARLY drinking more than me.

I would prefer something small and where my BMs dont have to drop too much money into it!

My bachelorette party is going to be in Vegas. My MOH is already planning!

I would let my FH have his in Vegas. I have no issue with it.