HELP...Need Priest/Officiant ASAP!!!

Ok so I am getting married at the end of April at Atlantica. I am catholic, my FH is not...We have a priest who has been a friend of the family for about 40 years or so...he told my mom he could probably perform the ceremony, and NOW he says he just CANT do it!!

Who can I get on such short notice?? Also, I don't live LI anymore, so I can't meet w/anyone until the end of march (next time ill be up there).

any recommendations??? (im preferably looking for a man, who had a catholic bkgd, but I still would love any other recommendations)

pls help...