another sexytime question

Linzee636 Posted: May 12, 2011 10:14 AM

another sexytime question

how do you get in the mood?

lately, i've just not been into it at all - but then we do it, i always enjoy it! i feel so bad turning DH down, but sleep and laziness have been prevailing far too often and it needs to change!!!

Rosalind_75 Posted: May 12, 2011 10:17 AM

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im 35
im always in the mood

Linzee636 Posted: May 12, 2011 10:24 AM

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Posted by Rosalind_75

im 35
im always in the mood

am i the only one in a slump!?! help me out

AwaitingAugust Posted: May 12, 2011 10:25 AM

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i'm kind of in the same boat as you ... i start off not in the mood, then i end up enjoying it ... i usually just give in rather than turning DH down cause i know it'll be worth it

regy_k Posted: May 12, 2011 10:28 AM

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start kissing. works every time.
its all about the foreplay

Becca2010 Posted: May 12, 2011 10:30 AM

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I felt like that for the looooogest time. I feel like in the months before the wedding and then a little while after it, I was out of touch with my typical sex habits.

Now I'm good

I think it was just the wedding stress and the residual stress afterward.

Do you have any big projects at work that you're particularly stressed over?

Stress is the silent sex killer, I swear.

mariedsgn Posted: May 12, 2011 10:31 AM

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

i'm kind of in the same boat as you ... i start off not in the mood, then i end up enjoying it ... i usually just give in rather than turning DH down cause i know it'll be worth it

same here - I have been so busy with work and then I was sick.

to get in the mood sometimes I play 'dress up' or look at my b-pics.

MrsSx2 Posted: May 12, 2011 10:37 AM

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After 10 years together, there are times when I am never in the mood. (with the exception of the TTC stuff). Getting 'in the mood' was tough. I'll usually buy new lingerie and try to spice things up. Nothing too crazy though

Linzee636 Posted: May 12, 2011 10:42 AM

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Posted by Becca2010

Do you have any big projects at work that you're particularly stressed over?

Stress is the silent sex killer, I swear.

Ugh - This is probably my main culprit. I'm stressed pretty much every day, so it's not exactly an excuse, but definitely a reason for not feeling into it. It's always looming.

But I really like the just start kissing suggestion and dressing up in sexy clothes. I need to set a tone that says 'time to get busy!!' instead of 'time for bed, leave me alone'