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I don't know...

Depending on my mood I'd either:

Just be straight and be like 'Dude WTFFF... I hope this isn't true.' And watch her squirm.

Or... just decide to get that bish out of my life and just stop talking to her.

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Posted by flibbertigibbet

I don't know...

Depending on my mood I'd either:

Just be straight and be like 'Dude WTFFF... I hope this isn't true.' And watch her squirm.

Or... just decide to get that bish out of my life and just stop talking to her.

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thats how i feel.... it depends on my mood.


i found out that my BOSS told a work friend that came to the wedding that he had in intention to stay the whole time!!! so he tried to sneak out but he ran into me, and he shocked and started to gag like he was sick and was leaving. i called him out on it, and he was shocked but thats the kind of person he turned into and didnt give a rats *** that i brought it up.

so i guess it all depends on the person also, but if its really bothering you i would call her out and say something. it took me a few weeks to say something to him but i didnt bc i was annoyed and told him if he didnt wanna be there he should have said no and i could have saved money!

i might bring it up the next time wedding conversation pops up. that way it's not out of the blue, but it's more like...

oh, speaking of weddings, i heard that at my wedding you were talking a lot of shizzz... whats the deal?

I agree, I think it would depend on my mood and how you think she might react. Again, if you don't want to be friends with her anymore then it wouldn't matter BUT she's a coworker so it's a little harder.

When she asked to see the pictures I would probably just laugh and say 'but I thought I heard you said at the wedding that you hate weddings' and see what she would say. If it's REALLY bothering you, ask to do lunch during your lunch break and just ask her 'listen I heard you were saying stuff at the wedding? Is everyone ok?' Maybe she was having an off day. As for the date, a lot of my friends were saying things about that to other people and finally I just spoke to them and told them 'I have 300 people on my guest list, I can't invite everyone with a date, then it's 500 people!' They get it with numbers but nothing else I said sunk in.

i wouldn't be mad at all about the gift she gave ... i know it didn't cover her plate, but $100 is an acceptable gift ...

as for talking smack, yeah that was wrong of her ... but i'd probably just let it go ... sounds like she had a tough breakup so maybe she was just bitter about how her life turned out ...

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

i wouldn't be mad at all about the gift she gave ... i know it didn't cover her plate, but $100 is an acceptable gift ...

as for talking smack, yeah that was wrong of her ... but i'd probably just let it go ... sounds like she had a tough breakup so maybe she was just bitter about how her life turned out ...

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Ita

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

i wouldn't be mad at all about the gift she gave ... i know it didn't cover her plate, but $100 is an acceptable gift ...

as for talking smack, yeah that was wrong of her ... but i'd probably just let it go ... sounds like she had a tough breakup so maybe she was just bitter about how her life turned out ...

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I agree.

Ok was she out of line to talk ish to your fellow co-workers? Yes. But, she must have been really going through it that day. You making a big deal of it would seem petty. The wedding is over, just let it go.

I'd let it go. Her gift was a nice one...sounds like she went through a rough period which might've made her have a lousy mood regarding weddings.

And we are all guilty of talking crap about people...even our friends.

thx guys