I went to the Great Bridal Expo at the Windham Windwatch over the summer (around August). I also was kinda disappointed, but I was just starting to look. They displayed the limo company that I am interested in and I actually won a "discount" off of the dj that they displayed which turned out to be the house dj for my hall. So I managed to get a great deal out of it. I was terribly disappointed with the "fashion show". I thought all of the gowns were hideous. But there were a few interesting vendors. I'm actually looking for another show to go to.
I too am looking for an indoor photography site. I am getting married in January so Old Westbury Gardens will let you take indoor pictures then?