Please, I need all of the support I can get right now...

Wintersbride Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:11 PM

Please, I need all of the support I can get right now...

DMcK Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:12 PM

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I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I will keep you in my thoughts

gina&ken Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:15 PM

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CubanBride Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:15 PM

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OMG, what a *****.

Seriously, maybe it's time you distanced yourself from his family. I think you have been through enough. You cannot make FH stay away, but you don't have to subject yourself to that trash.

sept20yay Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:16 PM

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OMG, I am so sorry. She sounds like a psychopath. Does FH need to be in her life?oes she add to his life? I would SO cut her out and encourage FH to do the same. Completely unhealthy. She sounds like my ex's mother. Ugghhh!!!

amyandeddie Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:21 PM

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Wow! She's only hurting herself by driving everyone away!

marymoon Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:21 PM

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OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She's insane!

SUE her if you have to. How immature cna you be.

Vicky1706 Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:21 PM

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OMG...you have much more patience than me because I don't know what I would have done if she was up in my face!

SHE KEYED YOUR CAR???? Maybe she has a chemical imbalance or stopped taking her medication because normal functioning adults don't act that way even when provoked (not that you did).

So sorry but good luck!

Wintersbride Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:23 PM

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didianita Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:45 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsH

I was already upset with this. But you all won't believe what happened next...SHE KEYED MY BRAND NEW CAR!!!! I had to call the police and it may cost about $500 to fix. FH is going besurk! He is so upset, all he can do is just say over and over 'I'm sorry', which is making me cry becuase it is so not his fault!

First , second, relax hun, if fh is backing you up on this don't worry about it. And if you don't want her in your wedding, don't, is YOUR wedding!

sarahthegreat Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:50 PM

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sorry you are going through this. the most important thing is that you stick to your guns and don't let this woman bully her way into your life and your plans.

RedHead Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:51 PM

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SFP0214 Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:52 PM

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OMG... keep your head up.. you will be fine... that sucks you have to deal with it but it is sooo good that FH supports you and not her.
So sorry

9.17.04bride Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:55 PM

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Oh My God! I am so sorry. I will keep you in my thoughts. Things will work out for the best. She is CRAZY

jessnyc711 Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:56 PM

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OMG, I feel really bad for you and your FH, this has to be a nightmare to deal with. Sometimes it's better to not have people like that in your life, no matter who they are.

TracyInQueens Posted: Oct 25, 2004 04:04 PM

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She's obviously got LOTS of problems that have nothing to do with you. It's terrible that she's taking it out on you.

MizStinker Posted: Oct 25, 2004 04:29 PM

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omg -

This is totally unacceptable. Even if for the sake of argument did do all of the things she is accusing you of - does that warrant her reaction?

I will say this a million times - there are toxic people in this world - some of them are mothers and fathers, sisters and brothers. Your FH should be 100% confident that if he wants to cut ties with her that it is a healthy thing to do.

Katherine121 Posted: Oct 25, 2004 04:36 PM

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My question is - where was FFIL while his wife was screaming in your face?! You made the absolute right decision. It was totally disrespectful of her, and even if she did feel a certain way about you or had certain issues with you, there is an ADULT way to talk things out.

But now she has vandalized your personal property. You could easily, coolly, calmly, and perfectly within your rights, if you have proof that she did it, bring charges against her.

It's sad that it has to be this way, but she is emotionally unstable and I would stay as far away from her as possible.

Wintersbride Posted: Oct 25, 2004 04:44 PM

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Darcy Posted: Oct 25, 2004 04:48 PM

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I am really sorry this is happening. I am also worried about her, as I am sure you all are also.

Is there some sort of intervention the family can do, including people she is very close to. While I know you don't need this aggrevation, Lord knows I can lack in patience with people at times, I pray that as a family you will all be able to get her help. I know it seems that she is happy with what she is doing, but there really is something wrong. She most likely has control problems on top of many other issues. And the last thing you want for her is to die alone and unhappy.

I think you are on the right track with being supportive of your FH.

I hope things get better.