A QUOTE FOR ALL, ESPECIALLY MY NW BUDDIES

'All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with
another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.
The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are
looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration.
You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming
him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is
making you unhappy.'

What are your thoughts

What a deep post!!!

I believe it is telling you to look within and examine yourself and your own flaws.

I could be wrong.

What came to mind was, you could be blaming others for what is making you unhappy, but what is really wrong is within you and you need to look within yourself, b/c if you don't and keep blaming others, you will still be unhappy.

I sent it to hubby and he wants us to discuss it later when we get home tonight. I can't wait to hear his perspective on it.

i sent it to DH and got a great response. i'm always getting mad at him cuz he's always blaming me. he never says it meanly but just casually in a joking manner. but it still gets to me sometimes. he said it's a bad habit and he's going to work on it