Addressing TY notes (yep, another question)
Here's the question: if a married person attends your wedding, but their spouse does not, and he doesn't give a gift, do you make the thank you out to both of them, or just to the person who showed up?
We had two guests (one of my friends and one of DH's friends) attend as singles, even though they're both married. DH's friend's wife couldn't make it, and he RSVPd that he'd attend alone. My friend, however, did RSVP that they'd both come, then he called me the day before and said it would just be him. (Wife really didn't have a good excuse either). Neither of our friends gave us a gift (or even a card). I'm actually not bothered that they didn't give us anything, but a card would have been nice. Now we're doing our TYs and I'm sending them to the non-gifters as well. So do I make the TY out to 'Mr. and Mrs.' or just to 'Mr.' since it's a 'thank you for coming' and she didn't come?
Hope that makes sense!
We had two guests (one of my friends and one of DH's friends) attend as singles, even though they're both married. DH's friend's wife couldn't make it, and he RSVPd that he'd attend alone. My friend, however, did RSVP that they'd both come, then he called me the day before and said it would just be him. (Wife really didn't have a good excuse either). Neither of our friends gave us a gift (or even a card). I'm actually not bothered that they didn't give us anything, but a card would have been nice. Now we're doing our TYs and I'm sending them to the non-gifters as well. So do I make the TY out to 'Mr. and Mrs.' or just to 'Mr.' since it's a 'thank you for coming' and she didn't come?
Hope that makes sense!
