Alright this might be controversial but I'm dying to get some responses....

stinenandy2010 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 01:59 PM

Alright this might be controversial but I'm dying to get some responses....

I was home sick yesterday and of course what better show to watch when your sick other then Maury, lol! Anyway, I saw the coming attractions for a show next week and it said 'My husband cheats on me by going to the strip clubs'

Now I know there are plenty of women out there who don't like strip clubs but would some people actually consider this cheating??? Obviously if some back room shanigans go on, then definitely, but if a group of guys go just for the sake of a bachelor party and to see some boobies then would someone still consider that cheating???

Disclaimer: Just trying to move the boards along, no drama intended

grkbarbie Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:02 PM

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classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

stinenandy2010 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:03 PM

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i knew i could can't on you to respond barb! haha!

grkbarbie Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:04 PM

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no its not cheating. it def leaves a sour taste in my mouth for sure.

a lot of men also go get massages with happy endings. but women dont find out cuz its during work and very low key

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AugustBridein09 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:13 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

ITA .....ETA My husband went once when he was 18 in Canada. He said it was gross. Now he says its a total waste of money and he sees no point he would rather hang out with his friends at a bar or watching a baseball game or having dinner with them.

Also wanted to add that although I get that it maybe 'tradition' but DH & I didn't have traditional bach parties and we have declined the ones we have been invited to b/c we don't really like to participate in that type of behavior.

Marianne13 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:14 PM

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Posted by AugustBridein09

Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

ITA

ITA as well! However, going for a bachelor party is not cheating IMO as long as there is no inappropriate touching.

Rosalind_75 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:15 PM

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wow!!

guess tha means ive been cheating on dh for yearssssssssss

StaceyWill Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:17 PM

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I don’t think going once in awhile is cheating- like going for a bach party or for a friend’s b-day. But I would def have an issue with it if it was a regular weekly/monthly thing.

IrishBrideASmiling Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:20 PM

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Posted by AugustBridein09

Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

ITA

ITA as well.

nraboni Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:20 PM

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I don't think it is cheating but I don't see the reason for my DH to go to a strip club unless it is for a bachelor party or friend's birthday.

Do I like when he goes...No. Would I tell him he can't go...No.

KatieG2010 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:27 PM

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i think its digusting. they have a wife at home who can walk around naked anytime you want. if they need to go elsewhere to see strange women to get their jollies off they really need to reevaluate their lives. I HATE STRIP CLUBS!!!!!!!!!!!

gina409 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:34 PM

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i dont think its cheating at all..if my dh was going for a bach party i wont care..if he is going every thursday after he gets paid..yea we got a problem

besides i got better moves than half those girls..and i charge a lot less

Clover23 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:35 PM

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meh. im over it. def. not cheating unless you're getting special services.

pandafish519 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 02:53 PM

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Posted by gina409

i dont think its cheating at all..if my dh was going for a bach party i wont care..if he is going every thursday after he gets paid..yea we got a problem

besides i got better moves than half those girls..and i charge a lot less

geegee827 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 03:04 PM

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Posted by pandafish519

Posted by gina409

i dont think its cheating at all..if my dh was going for a bach party i wont care..if he is going every thursday after he gets paid..yea we got a problem

besides i got better moves than half those girls..and i charge a lot less

es2189 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 03:06 PM

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i definitely don't think it's cheating. it's not good if it's a regular thing, i agree, but if it's once in awhile i see no problem.

Lovebug2016 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 03:08 PM

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Its not cheating unless theres side action goin on. Those people on those shows are prob ppl who go like every night or so and go to those hole in the wall places. What normal relationship does a guy go to a stripp club on a weekly occasion? lol If a guy does that then hes UNDATEABLE lol

Like a random bachelor party or birthday party then that should be fine.Half of them in the area have their bottoms covered and your not allowed to touch the girl. Unless your goin to some hole in the wall strip club, but who goes to those for a bachelor/ birthday party? lol I dont think anything is wrong with it on special occasions and I have been wanting to go to a chick strip club for a while but havent had the opportunity....yet

MirabellaNYC Posted: Jun 25, 2010 03:13 PM

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I'm lucky that DH absolutely hates strippers and strip clubs....

I would be really annoyed if he went regularly, but if it's like a bachelor party I think it's funny. DH and his friends are a really great bunch of guys, actually NONE of them like strippers. I'm lucky! lol

MrsC2010 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 05:06 PM

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Posted by Clover23

meh. im over it. def. not cheating unless you're getting special services.

ITA

halfbaked Posted: Jun 25, 2010 05:30 PM

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Eh I don't see the point- it's skeevy and a huge waste of money, but I definitely don't think it's cheating. That's like saying watching porn is cheating IMO!