Alright this might be controversial but I'm dying to get some responses....

Original post by stinenandy2010

Jun 25, 2010 01:59 PM

I was home sick yesterday and of course what better show to watch when your sick other then Maury, lol! Anyway, I saw the coming attractions for a show next week and it said 'My husband cheats on me by going to the strip clubs'

Now I know there are plenty of women out there who don't like strip clubs but would some people actually consider this cheating??? Obviously if some back room shanigans go on, then definitely, but if a group of guys go just for the sake of a bachelor party and to see some boobies then would someone still consider that cheating???

Disclaimer: Just trying to move the boards along, no drama intended

halfbaked Posted: Jun 25, 2010 05:35 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

no its not cheating. it def leaves a sour taste in my mouth for sure.

a lot of men also go get massages with happy endings. but women dont find out cuz its during work and very low key

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I have a friend who does this all the time!!! And I don't think his g/f has any idea.

alli3131 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 05:48 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

HmmmmmmmI guess you just called many people I know classless. I do know my DH has gone to strip clubs. He does not go on a regular basis but he has gone at random times with friends and I have plenty of guy friends that go maybe a few times a year and I don't consider them classless and they are all in very long marriages.

PrincessBride09 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 06:22 PM

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Posted by KatieG2010

i think its digusting. they have a wife at home who can walk around naked anytime you want. if they need to go elsewhere to see strange women to get their jollies off they really need to reevaluate their lives. I HATE STRIP CLUBS!!!!!!!!!!!

VickiR510 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 06:47 PM

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Now granted my DH says he thinks they are ridiculous & sees no point in wasting his money on those girls. But yes he has been there for Bach parties.Honestly i dont care at all? I mean i know my Dh i know what he stands for & how we respect & love one another. He also doesnt go on a reg basis & also i think fo rus the Bach party thing is kinda over (we are in our 30's) I also think if most women on here think their man hasnt gone to a strip club at some point (wether he likes it or not) they might be very wrong.

dazies1011 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 06:48 PM

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Posted by gina409

i dont think its cheating at all..if my dh was going for a bach party i wont care..if he is going every thursday after he gets paid..yea we got a problem

besides i got better moves than half those girls..and i charge a lot less

Maybe you can show me some moves tomorrow

VickiR510 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 06:48 PM

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oops

VickiR510 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 06:51 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

Whats your opinion on 'Hooters'??? lol lol

MLAngelo Posted: Jun 25, 2010 07:00 PM

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No I would not consider that cheating... my mom always went by the you can read what's on the menu as long as you don't order attitude. 37 years of happy marital bliss. I think it works well.

I really don't care if DH looks as long as he doesn't touch. A lap dance would bother me but I wouldn't consider it cheating... back room, yes that is a different story. But I trust him completely.

FYI neither my dad nor DH really do the strip club thing. DH went in college and one bachelor party and my dad did Scores for his best friends bachelor party about 10 years ago. But even other things... like when my father was invited to a lingerie photo shoot by his friend... my mom was like, fine go, as long as your not the oil boy.

MirabellaNYC Posted: Jun 25, 2010 07:15 PM

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Posted by VickiR510

Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

Whats your opinion on 'Hooters'??? lol lol

Hey now, I was a Hooters girl from 1998-2001!
For real!

EmiNoa628 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 07:37 PM

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we definitely should have a class or two just for fun!!!

miamimerger Posted: Jun 25, 2010 07:46 PM

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Posted by MirabellaNYC

I'm lucky that DH absolutely hates strippers and strip clubs....

I would be really annoyed if he went regularly, but if it's like a bachelor party I think it's funny. DH and his friends are a really great bunch of guys, actually NONE of them like strippers. I'm lucky! lol

ITA! My BIL actually hired strippers for DH's bachelor party (after he specifically said NOT to), and the two didn't talk for a couple of weeks after. I don't think it's cheating, but I'm lucky I don't even have to think about that situation!

scatteredx12 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 08:05 PM

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I don't think it's cheating... As others have said, if it's once in a blue moon for a bachelor/birthday party, that's fine, but if it becomes a habit, then there's a problem...

VickiR510 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 08:51 PM

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Posted by MirabellaNYC

Posted by VickiR510

Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

Whats your opinion on 'Hooters'??? lol lol

Hey now, I was a Hooters girl from 1998-2001!
For real!

Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. Jenny u know i was being facetious. xoxoxoxox

GT143EA Posted: Jun 25, 2010 11:18 PM

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Not cheating at all! And if DH is gonna go to a strip club I want in too!!

Tomlaur0808 Posted: Jun 26, 2010 02:22 AM

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Posted by MirabellaNYC

Posted by VickiR510

Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

Whats your opinion on 'Hooters'??? lol lol

Hey now, I was a Hooters girl from 1998-2001!
For real!

Hooters girl here too 1996-1997

Tomlaur0808 Posted: Jun 26, 2010 02:23 AM

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Posted by gina409

i dont think its cheating at all..if my dh was going for a bach party i wont care..if he is going every thursday after he gets paid..yea we got a problem

besides i got better moves than half those girls..and i charge a lot less

and THIS is why I love you G!

You can show BOTH me & Christine some of those moves @ the DUDA-Q!

MLAngelo Posted: Jun 26, 2010 08:36 AM

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Posted by MirabellaNYC

Posted by VickiR510

Posted by grkbarbie

classless men go to strip clubs. or guys that didnt/dont get 'enough' attention from women

Whats your opinion on 'Hooters'??? lol lol

Hey now, I was a Hooters girl from 1998-2001!
For real!

I think of you every time I see the new hooters girl commercial, showing successful women who worked there. You should totally be on that.

allegracristina Posted: Jun 26, 2010 09:44 AM

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I don't think going to a strip club is cheating. I think that A LOT more back room stuff goes on than people want to believe. Luckily for me, DH has zero interest in strip clubs, and has never been and never wants to go. He has declined strip club bach parties and all because he doesn't want to be around that environment. It makes him uncomfortable and I don't blame him!

Win for me!

dazies1011 Posted: Jun 26, 2010 09:46 AM

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Posted by Tomlaur0808

Posted by gina409

i dont think its cheating at all..if my dh was going for a bach party i wont care..if he is going every thursday after he gets paid..yea we got a problem

besides i got better moves than half those girls..and i charge a lot less

and THIS is why I love you G!

You can show BOTH me & Christine some of those moves @ the DUDA-Q!

Learning moves and Im going pantless, this will be fun

Tomlaur0808 Posted: Jun 26, 2010 11:12 AM

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Posted by dazies1011

Posted by Tomlaur0808

Posted by gina409

i dont think its cheating at all..if my dh was going for a bach party i wont care..if he is going every thursday after he gets paid..yea we got a problem

besides i got better moves than half those girls..and i charge a lot less

and THIS is why I love you G!

You can show BOTH me & Christine some of those moves @ the DUDA-Q!
Learning moves and Im going pantless, this will be fun