So we were told by our banker that we should have a closing date on or before wednesday...then he told us wednesday when we didnt have a date that it would be thursday morning! well now its thrusday afternoon and still nothing! im soo fed up with this whole thing!
we have to close by the 31st so yeah in reality i can just go by that date, and if its sooner then whatever, but this whole processss is driving me crazy and im at the point where i dont even want the house anymore!!!!!!!!!!!! (im just being dramatic, i still do! LOL) just soo over this whole thing! our banker s-u-c-k-s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i blame him for the delay in everything! he doesnt know how to comunicate! i called him and i swear he is avoiding my phone calls! and i get that sure we may be annoying at this point, but umm im not just using him to open a checking account! this is serious and is prob the biggest thing we will ever be doing, so umm some answers would be nice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AugustBridein09
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OMG Thats soooo annoying!!!
alli3131
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If it helps...its not just your bank.....its every bank. Everyone I know including our closing went the exact same way.....I sent the same paperwork 10x and pushed for a closing date for weeks.
Do not just let the 31st come.....keep pushing because they wont push for anything
gina409
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im so sorry..this is has to be so annoying!!!!
just keep saying..after all this bs..we will be homeowners
and by that i mean me and u cause i will be over
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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WHat a pain in the asss that is!!! I know bc we just went through that in Dec.... The best thing I ever did was to bypass the bank completely and speak directly to the underwriter who told us exactly what we needed and when things would be moving along.... You could try that
FinallyMrsB18
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I am sorry this guy is being a jerk.
kcreagh
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ugh that really is soo annoying!
LadyDuda81509
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ok so apparently we will def hear something tommorow after 2!!!
so just pray that you see a post from me after 2 with the subject FINALLY or WE GOT IT! LOL
rebekahlw164
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Good luck! Definitely keep pushing. Last year we refinanced and went through something similar. The bank kept putting things off for weeks and then finally told us that if we didn't close by a certain date that we would have to start the whole application over again! I couldn't believe we could lose our application fee because THEY took too long! We ended up closing the day before so it all worked out but it was soooo frustrating. I'm sure everything will work out for you guys too!
PoppedInASnap
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omgg i hate that. I am so sorry u must be sooo annoyedddd xoxo
MLAngelo
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do you have a real estate lawyer handling your closing... he should be pushing to get you the closing date.
PROBM
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grrrrrrrrrrr this process stinks!! i quit being a grown up !!!
bag19
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the few weeks leading up to our closing were so stressful, i must have lost about 10 years off my life but the house was worth fighting for so i stuck it out. we closed on the day our rate expired (talk about STRESS!!!) you will get through this!! and if there is one thing i learned during the process its that the squeaky wheel gets the oil. annoy the EFF out of your banker!! make sure he is doing his job!!!!! good luck and i hope you get some answers soon!!! remember it is ALL worth it in the end!!!