Any one else TTC and having a very hard time dealing ith it????

Long story short
Hubby really wants a child of his own (loves my daughters as his own but you know what i mean)

Now i've been preggo an MC a few times now.
My docs say not to even try because of all the meds i'm on..... but i'm willing to stop all my meds and deal with the horrible back pain for 9 months if it ment having another little one.

Other than going to a specialist and running 5000000000 tests on both of us i'm kinda ready to give up on the thought of having another baby.
It's depressing and aggrivating

ughhhhhhhhhhh
sorry vent over i'll go back to my crafting now

There are plenty of us over on LIF TTC board who have been trying for quite some time. Come on over and vent with the rest of us over there!!!!

Don't worry you are not alone. I feel like every time I turn around a friend is telling us oooopps we are PG.

Dont give up hope!!! im sure you will be able to have another one!!

sending some prayers your way that you will be prego soon!!

we havent even had 1 yet, we've been TTC since Sept, and Im now 39 and very scared maybe it wont happen for us, but trying to stay optimistic

could you maybe deal with the back pain first, ie surgery??

then, when your back is better (which is only a short time after surgery) you can be off the meds and still feel good, then try to TTC???


GL to you and DH with all of your tests.

i can't really relate, but i just wanted to let you know that i'll be thinking of you and putting you in my good thoughts!

Just wanted to give you some
We're on month 2 of trying, you'll find lots of support on the LIF TTC board.
Good luck!

You are definitely not alone. DH and I have been trying to conceive for 2 years now, way before we were even married. So I can definitely relate. Originally we wanted to try without any help. Once we were engaged we decided to wait until after the wedding to see a specialist. Which did help aleviate some stress and doubts. We now know what is wrong and thankfully it is something that can be treated. Please FM if you would like to talk.
I am sorry about MC, but the silver lining is that you can get pregnant. I would recommend seeing a specialist just to get a better idea of what is going on. Like Ali said, come over to LIF and you will see you're not alone. Like the girls on here who were very supportive throughout the wedding process, the ladies on LIF are just the same. GL!

im so sorry u r going through this..

is the medicine easy to go on and off..like say u try for 2 months and f no luck,go back on meds for a month to make u feel a bit betterthen go off and try again