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Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Jen_n_Dale
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:26 PM+

Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:26 PM
Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I have been doing a couple a day. And I just really don't want to do it! There are just too many. I feel like I am writing the same thing in every card.Anyone have some unique sayings to put in there??? Or is it ok to keep it short and sweet?
ThongLori
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:46 PM+

Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:46 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Hi JenI havent gotten to thank-yous yet but I did them for my shower and I was actually kinda funny in them for the pure reason of amusing myself LOL I hope DH is helping you!
wc0143
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:02 PM+

Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:02 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
It was a pain!!I had a website with Thank You verses but I don't remember it ... I know I posted on here - I'll see if I can find/bump!
ETA: I did all of ours but only because I wouldn't let DH do them!! LOL!! I did have him write the ones to his siblings ...
Jen_n_Dale
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:42 PM+

Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:42 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Lori- I can't even get him to take the trash out and he would use the excuse, 'my handwriting is bad.
Well, I think I got about 20 done. Just need to do another 60. LOL. They should be out by the holidays.And Wc0143 I will see if I can find it. Thanks for your help!
Maribelle7777
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:18 PM+

Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:18 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I haven't even started mine yet
But...in my defense....I had to have my TY pics redone, the first set came out bad.
Jen_n_Dale
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:37 PM+

Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:37 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I found verse it and just printed up a whole list of of thank you's. So.....THANK YOU
for your help!
Kelly9904
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 08:52 AM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 08:52 AM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Posted by Jen_n_Dale
They should be out by the holidays.![]()
I have done 6 so far!!!!!!!
I was thinking this last night, I was looking thru the current catalog and they had their christmas cards, and I was thinking, do I have to send out holiday cards this year? Because seriously by the time I finish the TYs for the wedding and mail them out, it will be December!!!!! I doubt all our friends/family want to hear from us this much in one year!
MindyL28
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 09:39 AM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 09:39 AM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I feel like thank-you's are the bain of my exisitance right now! I was so good about my shower thank you's- I got them out in 2 days (I was a bit insane) but I am totally stalling with these! There are just so many that it's overwhelming! I try to do 10 a night but I've been at a standstill for the last week!PLUS- I won't let my husband write them because his handwriting is so freakin small that you need a magnifying glass to read it! He means well but I just have to do them!
I am so glad I am not the only one who feels this way!
drewsgirl
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 09:55 AM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 09:55 AM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
It felt like they were never going to be done! I just have to address all of the envelopes and they should be going out this weekend!! I don't want to see them anymore!
ChristineC68
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 10:25 AM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 10:25 AM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
This is exactly why we banged them out in one day instead of a few each night. My hand hurt for 3 days but I was glad I never had to think about doing them again.good luck!
FeliciaDA
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 10:50 AM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 10:50 AM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I haven't even gotten to this stage yet and ALREADY I'm DREADING the very thought of it!
I guess the only bright side for us is that we had a relatively small weddding so there won't be nearly as many write out as some of you poor ladies have to do

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ... I thought all the 'agita' went away once the wedding was over
Rob-luvs-me
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:43 AM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:43 AM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I will let you know when mine finally come in
ikasse02
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:45 AM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:45 AM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I pestered the photogs to give us the cards before the wedding (even if we didn't pick a picture).I wrote most of them on the plane to and from Hawaii and during lazy days of the honeymoon. It was great b/c everything was still fresh in my head. And it made the plane rides go a bit faster!
Now I only have a few straggler gift ones to write! Hubbie is picking up the pics now!
I still feel like 2 months is late to get them out. For pic TYs is this ok?
Robeymuse
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:46 AM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:46 AM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I do! I have been writing about 10 per day. It probably won't finish and mail them until next week! DH is out of town so I am doing them by myself
Kelly9904
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 12:11 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 12:11 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Posted by ikasse02
I still feel like 2 months is late to get them out. For pic TYs is this ok?
2 months! Please thats great!!! I have been married a month and a half and I havent picked the pic and I have only written out 6!
Standard ettiquite is within one year....I am shooting for 6 months (but we have some extenuating circumstances)
ChristineC68
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 01:08 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 01:08 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Posted by Kelly9904
Standard ettiquite is within one year....I am shooting for 6 months (but we have some extenuating circumstances)
I heard a year was for wedding gifts & that TY's should be sent within three months (or as close to that as possible).
Kelly9904
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 01:38 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 01:38 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Posted by ChristineC68
Posted by Kelly9904
Standard ettiquite is within one year....I am shooting for 6 months (but we have some extenuating circumstances)
I heard a year was for wedding gifts & that TY's should be sent within three months (or as close to that as possible).
So if a person gives money, they should get their card faster?
I could be wrong but that seems odd....
ChristineC68
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 02:31 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 02:31 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
No, that's not what I meant.Guests/family/friends have a year to give a wedding gift.
Brides/Grooms don't have a year to send a thank you.
TY's should always be sent as soon as possible after receiving the gift. On LI, it takes a couple of months b/c we wait for proofs, pick a picture, etc.
Did I misunderstand your post - did you say a year to send thank yous?
May2704bride
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 04:38 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2004 04:38 PM
Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
I hated it!!!! It took me a week to complete everyone. FH wrote maybe a whole whopping 5 TY's
.It's a pain but needs to get done
Keep it short and simple. Obviously for the special people in your life you can write whatever you want
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