Search Forums

Wedding Forums > For Newlyweds Only > Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???
Jen_n_Dale Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:26 PM+
Jen_n_Dale MEMBER SINCE: 8/02 TOTAL POSTS : 4800 WEDDING DATE: Jul 02, 2004
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:26 PM bride-minus.png

Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I have been doing a couple a day. And I just really don't want to do it! There are just too many. I feel like I am writing the same thing in every card.

Anyone have some unique sayings to put in there??? Or is it ok to keep it short and sweet?

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ThongLori Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:46 PM+
ThongLori MEMBER SINCE: 4/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1713 WEDDING DATE: Sep 16, 2004
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:46 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

Hi Jen

I havent gotten to thank-yous yet but I did them for my shower and I was actually kinda funny in them for the pure reason of amusing myself LOL I hope DH is helping you!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
wc0143 Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:02 PM+
wc0143 MEMBER SINCE: 8/03 TOTAL POSTS : 14841 WEDDING DATE: May 01, 2004
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:02 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

It was a pain!!

I had a website with Thank You verses but I don't remember it ... I know I posted on here - I'll see if I can find/bump!

ETA: I did all of ours but only because I wouldn't let DH do them!! LOL!! I did have him write the ones to his siblings ...
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Jen_n_Dale Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:42 PM+
Jen_n_Dale MEMBER SINCE: 8/02 TOTAL POSTS : 4800 WEDDING DATE: Jul 02, 2004
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:42 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

Lori- I can't even get him to take the trash out and he would use the excuse, 'my handwriting is bad. Well, I think I got about 20 done. Just need to do another 60. LOL. They should be out by the holidays.

And Wc0143 I will see if I can find it. Thanks for your help!

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Maribelle7777 Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:18 PM+
Maribelle7777 MEMBER SINCE: 5/03 TOTAL POSTS : 5699 WEDDING DATE: Apr 30, 2004
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:18 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I haven't even started mine yet

But...in my defense....I had to have my TY pics redone, the first set came out bad.

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Jen_n_Dale Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:37 PM+
Jen_n_Dale MEMBER SINCE: 8/02 TOTAL POSTS : 4800 WEDDING DATE: Jul 02, 2004
Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:37 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I found verse it and just printed up a whole list of of thank you's. So.....

THANK YOU

for your help!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Kelly9904 Posted: Aug 12, 2004 08:52 AM+
Kelly9904 MEMBER SINCE: 8/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2544 WEDDING DATE: Jun 26, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 08:52 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???


Posted by Jen_n_Dale
They should be out by the holidays.





I have done 6 so far!!!!!!!

I was thinking this last night, I was looking thru the current catalog and they had their christmas cards, and I was thinking, do I have to send out holiday cards this year? Because seriously by the time I finish the TYs for the wedding and mail them out, it will be December!!!!! I doubt all our friends/family want to hear from us this much in one year!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
MindyL28 Posted: Aug 12, 2004 09:39 AM+
MindyL28 MEMBER SINCE: 9/03 TOTAL POSTS : 547 WEDDING DATE: Jul 04, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 09:39 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I feel like thank-you's are the bain of my exisitance right now! I was so good about my shower thank you's- I got them out in 2 days (I was a bit insane) but I am totally stalling with these! There are just so many that it's overwhelming! I try to do 10 a night but I've been at a standstill for the last week!
PLUS- I won't let my husband write them because his handwriting is so freakin small that you need a magnifying glass to read it! He means well but I just have to do them!

I am so glad I am not the only one who feels this way!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
drewsgirl Posted: Aug 12, 2004 09:55 AM+
drewsgirl MEMBER SINCE: 10/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1224 WEDDING DATE: Jun 05, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 09:55 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

It felt like they were never going to be done! I just have to address all of the envelopes and they should be going out this weekend!! I don't want to see them anymore!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ChristineC68 Posted: Aug 12, 2004 10:25 AM+
ChristineC68 MEMBER SINCE: 5/01 TOTAL POSTS : 12170 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2002
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 10:25 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

This is exactly why we banged them out in one day instead of a few each night. My hand hurt for 3 days but I was glad I never had to think about doing them again.

good luck!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
FeliciaDA Posted: Aug 12, 2004 10:50 AM+
FeliciaDA MEMBER SINCE: 12/03 TOTAL POSTS : 11583 WEDDING DATE: Jul 25, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 10:50 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I haven't even gotten to this stage yet and ALREADY I'm DREADING the very thought of it!

I guess the only bright side for us is that we had a relatively small weddding so there won't be nearly as many write out as some of you poor ladies have to do

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ... I thought all the 'agita' went away once the wedding was over
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Rob-luvs-me Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:43 AM+
Rob-luvs-me MEMBER SINCE: 10/02 TOTAL POSTS : 5021 WEDDING DATE: Apr 24, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:43 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I will let you know when mine finally come in
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ikasse02 Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:45 AM+
ikasse02 MEMBER SINCE: 8/03 TOTAL POSTS : 245 WEDDING DATE: Jun 12, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:45 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I pestered the photogs to give us the cards before the wedding (even if we didn't pick a picture).

I wrote most of them on the plane to and from Hawaii and during lazy days of the honeymoon. It was great b/c everything was still fresh in my head. And it made the plane rides go a bit faster!

Now I only have a few straggler gift ones to write! Hubbie is picking up the pics now!

I still feel like 2 months is late to get them out. For pic TYs is this ok?

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Robeymuse Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:46 AM+
Robeymuse MEMBER SINCE: 1/03 TOTAL POSTS : 3000 WEDDING DATE: May 16, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 11:46 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I do! I have been writing about 10 per day. It probably won't finish and mail them until next week! DH is out of town so I am doing them by myself
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Kelly9904 Posted: Aug 12, 2004 12:11 PM+
Kelly9904 MEMBER SINCE: 8/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2544 WEDDING DATE: Jun 26, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 12:11 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???


Posted by ikasse02

I still feel like 2 months is late to get them out. For pic TYs is this ok?




2 months! Please thats great!!! I have been married a month and a half and I havent picked the pic and I have only written out 6!

Standard ettiquite is within one year....I am shooting for 6 months (but we have some extenuating circumstances)
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ChristineC68 Posted: Aug 12, 2004 01:08 PM+
ChristineC68 MEMBER SINCE: 5/01 TOTAL POSTS : 12170 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2002
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 01:08 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???


Posted by Kelly9904

Standard ettiquite is within one year....I am shooting for 6 months (but we have some extenuating circumstances)



I heard a year was for wedding gifts & that TY's should be sent within three months (or as close to that as possible).
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Kelly9904 Posted: Aug 12, 2004 01:38 PM+
Kelly9904 MEMBER SINCE: 8/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2544 WEDDING DATE: Jun 26, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 01:38 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???


Posted by ChristineC68


Posted by Kelly9904

Standard ettiquite is within one year....I am shooting for 6 months (but we have some extenuating circumstances)



I heard a year was for wedding gifts & that TY's should be sent within three months (or as close to that as possible).



So if a person gives money, they should get their card faster?

I could be wrong but that seems odd....
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ChristineC68 Posted: Aug 12, 2004 02:31 PM+
ChristineC68 MEMBER SINCE: 5/01 TOTAL POSTS : 12170 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2002
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 02:31 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

No, that's not what I meant.

Guests/family/friends have a year to give a wedding gift.

Brides/Grooms don't have a year to send a thank you.

TY's should always be sent as soon as possible after receiving the gift. On LI, it takes a couple of months b/c we wait for proofs, pick a picture, etc.

Did I misunderstand your post - did you say a year to send thank yous?
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
May2704bride Posted: Aug 12, 2004 04:38 PM+
May2704bride MEMBER SINCE: 9/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1073 WEDDING DATE: May 27, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 04:38 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I hated it!!!! It took me a week to complete everyone. FH wrote maybe a whole whopping 5 TY's .

It's a pain but needs to get done

Keep it short and simple. Obviously for the special people in your life you can write whatever you want
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
palebride Posted: Aug 12, 2004 04:43 PM+
palebride MEMBER SINCE: 6/03 TOTAL POSTS : 12372 WEDDING DATE: Apr 03, 2004
Posted: Aug 12, 2004 04:43 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Anyone else hate writing the thank you notes???

I actually enjoyed writing them...I tried to get as cheesy as possible to amuse myself!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
No Posts Found With Your Match.
  • Chat With Local Long Island Brides
  • Larkfield
  • Terrace On The Park
  • Chat With Local Brides
  • Swan Club
  • Land's End-Land's End
  • Ken Hild Photography-Ken Hild Photography
  • Coordinator - Day Of Coordinator-
 
Welcome New Vendors
X
X
X
X
Email to Friend
X
Submit a Report