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Anyone have a experience like this?

bostonbrideinLongisland Posted:

Anyone have a experience like this?

So I can't stop thinking about what my cousin did to me on my wedding day.

First off, she started drinking at my house while we were getting ready. On the limo ride- she was acting up and making crass remarks. Several people in the limo came up to me and made comments about how embarassing she was being.

Then, when we were out in the garden taking photographs, she complained the whole time, very loudly the whole time. Mind you- i had an hour between the church ceremony and when the cocktail hour was to begin. SOOOO NO time was cutting into anything.

So after the photographs, I told her to Knock it off. about the complaining. Well she proceded to run screaming and crying out of the garden. then my wedding started. and let me tell you what she did. she proceeded to cry hysterically to every single guest she could. she cried in the bathroom, in front of the reception, in the ballroom, in every single room.

during my video montage- when me and hubbys baby pictures where playing. She got up and danced through it.
no one else was dancing, and you dont' dance through video montages. she was dancing and being very loud.

She also refused to get introduced into the reception and walk with her groomsmen.

On top of all this, I paid for her dress to be a bridesmaid- never paid me back. and she didn't give us a wedding present or even a card congratulating us.

I am really so hurt. She didn't even call me with an apology. I confronted her in an email telling her that her behavior was unacceptable. She got defensive iwth me and said i was a mean bride.

Anyone have a horrible experience like this , with someone taking away from your wedding day?
MLAngelo Posted:

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I am sorry that happened to you. Especially from a cousin. Thankfully my wedding was fairly drama free.

wo0shply Posted:

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I had something similar except it was my SILs that were causing a ruckus. I didnt find out until after the wedding.

My sister was angry at me because I didnt pay enough attention to her and she started to cry and was angry at me the during the reception.
LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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awww soo sorry! i hope she didnt ruin your day! is she jealous of you? i feel like thats it!

i did have a few drunken messes of BM's but nothing crazy like that...

what i did have was one of my girls was a complainer, 2 days before the wedding called me up to tell me she hated the dress and wanted to change at the reception..i said no to that but not that it mattered cuz she left an hour into it because she said she had a migrane!
thenewmrsharrington Posted:

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i once went to a wedding where one of the bm's projectile vomited in the middle of the ceremony!

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