i hate to say it but im slowly leaning towards that.
like 2 years ago i saw myself w/ like 3 kids and so happy, but now i think about it , i get all freaked out and dont even want one!!!
please tell me its normal to feel this way?
allegracristina
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It's normal. I feel this way all the time! I just don't know if I can handle it!
MrsDtoBe09
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nooooooooooooooooooooo Colleen! You and Tom would make the most hysterical kids! (NOT looks wise, I'm talking personality!) Imagine a half you half Tom person walking around this earth! Awesome!
Summertimegal424
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nooooooooooooooooooooo Colleen! You and Tom would make the most hysterical kids! (NOT looks wise, I'm talking personality!) Imagine a half you half Tom person walking around this earth! Awesome!
im sure we would, but im just to lazy to parent them!
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nooooooooooooooooooooo Colleen! You and Tom would make the most hysterical kids! (NOT looks wise, I'm talking personality!) Imagine a half you half Tom person walking around this earth! Awesome!
im sure we would, but im just to lazy to parent them!
Send them to your parents! My mom is dyyyyyyyyyyyyyyying for another grandchild. Mike wont go for it just yet.
AugustBridein09
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I am! I am too lazy, too selfish, too scared, too everything...LOL I don't want kids for the next like 8 to 10 yrs....and if by then we want one then cool if not thats cool too.
You are def NOT alone on this.
Edited to add that my DH is def on the same page as me.
chicky724
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I def want kids... but thinking about the whole labor and pregnancy thing is almost enough to make me not want them! It seriously gives me panic attacks if I start thinking about it too much.
sophisticat13
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I have felt that way for a long time. It is a huge responsibility and I never had a burning desire, like so many other girls I know, to have children...I don't know why. It might have to do with my having such a toxic mother...not that you need a toxic parent to make you want to not have them...I do think it is better to recognize that you don't want them rather than go and have kid(s) and THEN realize you were not meant to be a parent though...see that all the time at my job and it's terrible.
