Are you friends with any of your Ex's and....

futuremrsGafforio Posted: Aug 28, 2007 10:59 PM

Are you friends with any of your Ex's and....

does this bother DH?

MJDoc12 Posted: Aug 28, 2007 11:01 PM

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nope--don't talk to any of them anymore really. i have as a friend on myspace, the first real BF i ever had when i was like 15...lol but i never talk to him

it would bother DH--i know it would. DH's ex-GF tried to be 'friends' with me, but i saw thru her fakeness.

Future Mrs. Posted: Aug 28, 2007 11:04 PM

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oh goodness, no. It was a huge issue though. I had a great friend who I dated once. It didn't work out between us, but we reamined GREAT friends. However, I never introduced him to DH, he was not invited to our wedding, etc. We still talk, and DH knows, but I would never feel comfortable with them meeting one another.
Maybe i'm being silly, but its the way I feel. Once you 'cross that line' its all over.

Missladybug15 Posted: Aug 28, 2007 11:11 PM

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nope

futuremrsGafforio Posted: Aug 28, 2007 11:11 PM

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DH knows that I still talk to my Ex and isn't thrilled with the idea. We've been friends since 7th grade and I don't really see a problem with it. We are both in committed relationships now.

PegaLega Posted: Aug 28, 2007 11:20 PM

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I talked to one of my ex's every now and then, Dh knew,he didnt like it-now we dont really ever talk

Snickers76 Posted: Aug 28, 2007 11:24 PM

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There is one ex that I still talk to and DH knows that I talk to him, but I never fully explained that he is my ex. I think DH knows though. I don't think he likes it. Other than that, no. I usually make a clean break.

prettyprincess07 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:35 AM

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They are an Ex for a reason and it usually means friendship is out of the question.

Sara_Sage Posted: Aug 29, 2007 01:07 AM

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I'm friends with my ex and so is my Husband. Him and his fiance were invited to the wedding and she even caught the bouquet. lol

milana Posted: Aug 29, 2007 01:34 AM

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definitly NOT dont see how that would work lol

ruzi777 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 02:43 AM

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Nope

jeanla4c Posted: Aug 29, 2007 08:00 AM

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No --just lost touch and that is fine!

GettinHutched Posted: Aug 29, 2007 09:09 AM

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I don't know if you can call us friends, but we keep in touch. It doesn't totally bother him...but I think it would if we got together for lunch/dinner or something. He still talks to his exes too...but just emails now and then.

mkc56 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 09:14 AM

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Nope.

imas98 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 09:52 AM

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iBCraZ131 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 09:53 AM

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Yes I am, just one, and DH is very good friends with him - I think even better than me now!

ETA: My ex was also invited to the wedding with his fiance. He also has done electrical work on our house and DH has helped him out with many many things. It's a completely different relationship now - I always forget I even dated him!!

Aug07OFCbride Posted: Aug 29, 2007 11:14 AM

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yes im friends with an ex, he was actually invited to out wedding but he and his fiance couldnt come (theyre in alabama), theyre planning their own wedding and need to save money. i think a few things make it so that dh doesnt care- he is so far away so we don't talk very often and never really see eachother, has his own life and soon to be wife, he and i even when dating always felt more like just friends (no passion), he is a good Christian man with good values and so dh respect's him as we all share those same values, and its valuable for me to talk to him as he is a practicing psychologist and i am still going through my doctoral program..he has valuable advice/guidance.

kflan75 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 11:16 AM

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no way!!

jenafee Posted: Aug 29, 2007 01:51 PM

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Yes I am and no DH is ok with it. We're good friends and call each other on birthdays and holidays. He even called me the day before I was getting married to wish me luck.