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Are you HIS type and is he YOUR type?

Original post by PeteysBride

Ok so a co-worker asked me this and it made me think. Are you your husband's 'type' and is he yours?

Like I know my husband is attracted to women with darker skin and dark hair. He has a thing for Indian chicks big time. but I am his first girlfriend 'of color'.

Anyway, I am his type but he actualyl was NOT MY type! Crazy huh? I never liked men with tatoos, or hige muscles or who were gearheads and liked guns and fast cars. I prefered the funny guy who was usually smart but a clown at the same time and who could make me laugh. I was intimidated by attractive men so my exes were never the 'hot' guys at all.

But Pete is everything I wasn't looking for and YET he is TOTALLY my type in that we cimpliment one another so well. Yes he drives me nuts 15% of the time but generally we work great AND he's HOT.

Anyone else?
sugarkube4 Posted:

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DH is totally my type.. looks personality, you name it..

Now it makes me wonder if I am his type... I would think no... bc I am bubbly and opininated and I talk back to everyone

Im gonna have to ask him now.... hmmmm
Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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i never really dated according to a 'type'...it was moreso is there a connection/attraction. i think me and DH are definitely eachother's 'types' by that definition.

he says hes thankful he finally ended up with someone who was truly his type. i think hes thankful he ended up with a girl with big boobies in all seriousness, he loves curves (thank goodness cause I have plenty), and i have boobs and hips (wish i had more of a butt!). he also likes darker hair, tanner skin (too bad im pale at the moment bc of winter) and more 'exotic' eyes, which he says I have. although, he loved selma hayek and im FAR from her!!!!!!!!!!!! oh well. and our humor and faith jives so well!! i think i may be the first warm, loving lady he's had. he's dated some not so warm women.

and he is so stinkin handsome, hysterically funny, intelligent, So warm and loving, an amazing father, comfortable with emotions, and an awesome Christian man! he has the best smile, lips, eyes, shoulders and butt and he's muscle-icious to boot, which i LOVE!!! i always liked taller guys with darker hair and green eyes (thats him). I was and am so attracted to him, moreso than any man that has ever been in my life! im so thankful for him! im such a cheeseball, i like melt when he first walks in the door after work. or i want to attack him.
Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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Posted by MeNBobs


Based on the skirts DH thinks I should wear I think his type is a 42nd street prostitute. I don't really know his type. I know he dated a girl that worked in Country Fried Chicken because she gave him free chicken dinners



failurebydsign Posted:

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he is exactly my type and i didnt even realize until i looked back at other guys i dated and they all looked alike..lol

but he used to date 4 foot blonde hookers so this was an upgrade for him..
PaddysGirl15 Posted:

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hmm... he was totally my 'type'

I'm not sure what his was before he met me. He had a long term relationship with a girl who is my opposite:


Her: tall, skinny, blonde hair, brown eyes

Me: tall, curvy, black hair, green eyes
Brian and Marie Posted:

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We are DEF both eachothers types!!

I LOVE me a BAD BOY and I def got me one!! He's adventurous, daring, fun, exciting and he looks the part (I love tatted guys with a scruffy face)!! The 1st time I saw him walk by I said I NEED TO FUCCK HIM and then the 1st time we actually hung out I said that I WILL/NEED to MARRY HIM!!!


And he likes petite blondes with blue/green eyes!!
teenigrrl Posted:

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i guess he's my 'type', even though i never realized i had a type. i like tall guys, dark features, and i have a weakness for shaved heads, tatts and glasses. he had that tatts and glasses when we first met, but had really bad hair (but he was still cute and made me LAUGH, so he kept getting more chances ). finally, after about 6 months after being together, he finally took the plunge and shaved his head. i love it!

i guess i'm his type too. as he's always telling me 'I like 'em thick!', and that's def me but then he also finds christina aguillera super hot , so who knows what his true type is, all i know is that he married me
PeteysBride Posted:

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Posted by Aug07OFCbride

i never really dated according to a 'type'...it was moreso is there a connection/attraction. i think me and DH are definitely eachother's 'types' by that definition.

he says hes thankful he finally ended up with someone who was truly his type. i think hes thankful he ended up with a girl with big boobies in all seriousness, he loves curves (thank goodness cause I have plenty), and i have boobs and hips (wish i had more of a butt!). he also likes darker hair, tanner skin (too bad im pale at the moment bc of winter) and more 'exotic' eyes, which he says I have. although, he loved selma hayek and im FAR from her!!!!!!!!!!!! oh well. and our humor and faith jives so well!! i think i may be the first warm, loving lady he's had. he's dated some not so warm women.

and he is so stinkin handsome, hysterically funny, intelligent, So warm and loving, an amazing father, comfortable with emotions, and an awesome Christian man! he has the best smile, lips, eyes, shoulders and butt and he's muscle-icious to boot, which i LOVE!!! i always liked taller guys with darker hair and green eyes (thats him). I was and am so attracted to him, moreso than any man that has ever been in my life! im so thankful for him! im such a cheeseball, i like melt when he first walks in the door after work. or i want to attack him.



JEss I just have to say y'all are so happy and in love and such a hot couple its disgusting! Its great though to have someone who clicks with you.

What i mean by 'type' is (and this is UNPC people) I never dtaed attractive men. I ahve low self esteem as we know and I would never go after good looking guys. I always settled for the unattractive but funny guys, so when I ended up with pete who is HOT AND Funny, everyone went 'HUH?!'

LMAO had a complex for awhile because people would see his pic and say (with Disbelief in their voice as they looked ta me and the pic) 'He's FINE?!'

Yes I realize this. I have been bonking his brains out since our second date-yes I am a ho, lol BUT a married Ho!

So yea..my dad likes him because he says he is the first b/f I have had who doesn't look like he would need ME to defend HIM in a fight.-snickers-
jtgarsik Posted:

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Posted by PeteysBride

JEss I just have to say y'all are so happy and in love and such a hot couple its disgusting! Its great though to have someone who clicks with you.

What i mean by 'type' is (and this is UNPC people) I never dtaed attractive men. I ahve low self esteem as we know and I would never go after good looking guys. I always settled for the unattractive but funny guys, so when I ended up with pete who is HOT AND Funny, everyone went 'HUH?!'

LMAO had a complex for awhile because people would see his pic and say (with Disbelief in their voice as they looked ta me and the pic) 'He's FINE?!'

Yes I realize this. I have been bonking his brains out since our second date-yes I am a ho, lol BUT a married Ho!

So yea..my dad likes him because he says he is the first b/f I have had who doesn't look like he would need ME to defend HIM in a fight.-snickers-



jenn - u sound just like me!! same scenario!
PeteysBride Posted:

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Posted by jtgarsik

jenn - u sound just like me!! same scenario!



Which is why we need to hang out-long lost twins seperated by many miels and several skin tone differences but we make it through
iBCraZ131 Posted:

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DH totally was not my 'type'. I was into tall skinny guys with blue eyes. DH is 280, brown hair, brown eyes, although he is tall! So I guess I went out of my 'comfort zone' on that one. But we work so well together it is ridiculous.

As for DH - he didn't have any girlfriends before me, but he claims his type is tall blondes. I'm not very tall, but I am blonde, so I guess he kind of married his type!

I don't think either of us could be happier!

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