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DO you girls know exactly what your husbands did for their bachelor party?? I know exactly what they did and I also saw pics. They were naughty boys but it didnt bother me one bit because I trust my DH 100 percent. What about you girls? Did you wanna know?
Posted by Songstress
Whats up with all the DH's who are 'not into strip clubs'![]()
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Mine says he isnt either but he sure enjoyed the strippers at his bparty
Bad boys!!! Thank God none of my family members went. I dont trust them at all!
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Posted by Songstress
Whats up with all the DH's who are 'not into strip clubs'![]()
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Mine says he isnt either but he sure enjoyed the strippers at his bparty
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I BEGGED DH to go to a strip club. Same as you - we were together for ten years before we got married so I wanted him to experience a real BP
Thank goodness my brother, brother in law and cousins were there to keep an eye on himapparently they were the WORST out of everyone and tried to get him into the most trouble
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gotta love family!!!
Posted by Songstress
Whats up with all the DH's who are 'not into strip clubs'![]()
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Mine says he isnt either but he sure enjoyed the strippers at his bparty
Posted by Jenn04
On a side note...some of his friends are sooo whipped and their wives said they werent allowed to go to the strip club...or stay at the hotel! W T F?! I would never do that to DH. I really honestly dont get what all this stripclub madness is about. If a guy wanted to cheat..hes gonna cheat...regardless of where he is!!!!
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Posted by Jenn04
On a side note...some of his friends are sooo whipped and their wives said they werent allowed to go to the strip club...or stay at the hotel! W T F?! I would never do that to DH. I really honestly dont get what all this stripclub madness is about. If a guy wanted to cheat..hes gonna cheat...regardless of where he is!!!!
This blows my mind too. I would never not 'allow' him to go, that's ridiculous to me. He's a grown man, not a child and i'm not his mother. And exactly, if he wanted to cheat, i don't see him all day, he could have boundless opportunities that I would never know about, he doesn't have to wait for a strip club to do it.
Posted by Jenn04
DH went back to AZ (where he is from)...stayed at a nice resort with friends, golfed, went out and went to a strip club. I didnt feel the need to get all the strip club details - but he knows I dont really care so we just never felt the need to talk in depth about it. He doesnt drink but he said he had a great time!
On a side note...some of his friends are sooo whipped and their wives said they werent allowed to go to the strip club...or stay at the hotel! W T F?! I would never do that to DH. I really honestly dont get what all this stripclub madness is about. If a guy wanted to cheat..hes gonna cheat...regardless of where he is!!!!
Posted by Songstress
Whats up with all the DH's who are 'not into strip clubs'![]()
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Mine says he isnt either but he sure enjoyed the strippers at his bparty
Posted by snwb08
Posted by Songstress
Whats up with all the DH's who are 'not into strip clubs'![]()
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Mine says he isnt either but he sure enjoyed the strippers at his bparty
i know! i think they just say that... at the end of the day I'm sure they wouldn't turn down a lapdance or two!
mine goes at least once a year when his one friend comes into town. He has never said he's not into strip clubs though.![]()
Posted by davenjess
Yes - i know. Dave & his best man know all about my 'issues' with strip clubs, etc. My brother was there for almost the whole thing, as was my best friends' husband.
I trusted ALMOST everyone that was there, so while I was nervous, I knew in my heart, it would be okay. My only requests for him was no strip club (i have SEVERE self esteem issues, but he has known of them since the beginning of our relationship) and come home to me... In my heart, I knew if he came home to me and was able to look me in the eye, then NOTHING he could've done would be that bad. The worst thing that happened is that he wasn't as drunk as everyone else because he had a headache at one point and had to take tylenol and drink water for one hour or so. They were kicked out of a bar or 2 in Hoboken too...
My husband is one of the few who have BEEN TO the whole, 'bachelor party movie' party. Seriously, he was at one about 10 years ago that cancelled the wedding...it was the party to end ALL parties. From that day on - no one that he hangs out with has EVER had a party ANYWHERE near that one. I've heard all about it from the groom, and a lot of Dave's friends and holy S H I T is all I can say.
Posted by Songstress
Posted by davenjess
Yes - i know. Dave & his best man know all about my 'issues' with strip clubs, etc. My brother was there for almost the whole thing, as was my best friends' husband.
I trusted ALMOST everyone that was there, so while I was nervous, I knew in my heart, it would be okay. My only requests for him was no strip club (i have SEVERE self esteem issues, but he has known of them since the beginning of our relationship) and come home to me... In my heart, I knew if he came home to me and was able to look me in the eye, then NOTHING he could've done would be that bad. The worst thing that happened is that he wasn't as drunk as everyone else because he had a headache at one point and had to take tylenol and drink water for one hour or so. They were kicked out of a bar or 2 in Hoboken too...
My husband is one of the few who have BEEN TO the whole, 'bachelor party movie' party. Seriously, he was at one about 10 years ago that cancelled the wedding...it was the party to end ALL parties. From that day on - no one that he hangs out with has EVER had a party ANYWHERE near that one. I've heard all about it from the groom, and a lot of Dave's friends and holy S H I T is all I can say.
OMG! That must have been terrrrrible!! i cant believe someone would go to such lengths after months and months of planning a wedding. Only to cheat on their SO with a dirty stripper. Im glad Dave was a good boy and took your feelings into a consideration.
Posted by davenjess
Posted by Songstress
Posted by davenjess
Yes - i know. Dave & his best man know all about my 'issues' with strip clubs, etc. My brother was there for almost the whole thing, as was my best friends' husband.
I trusted ALMOST everyone that was there, so while I was nervous, I knew in my heart, it would be okay. My only requests for him was no strip club (i have SEVERE self esteem issues, but he has known of them since the beginning of our relationship) and come home to me... In my heart, I knew if he came home to me and was able to look me in the eye, then NOTHING he could've done would be that bad. The worst thing that happened is that he wasn't as drunk as everyone else because he had a headache at one point and had to take tylenol and drink water for one hour or so. They were kicked out of a bar or 2 in Hoboken too...
My husband is one of the few who have BEEN TO the whole, 'bachelor party movie' party. Seriously, he was at one about 10 years ago that cancelled the wedding...it was the party to end ALL parties. From that day on - no one that he hangs out with has EVER had a party ANYWHERE near that one. I've heard all about it from the groom, and a lot of Dave's friends and holy S H I T is all I can say.
OMG! That must have been terrrrrible!! i cant believe someone would go to such lengths after months and months of planning a wedding. Only to cheat on their SO with a dirty stripper. Im glad Dave was a good boy and took your feelings into a consideration.
That's just it - the poor guy DIDN'T CHEAT. Almost every single other person there did, but not him. He's a lovely guy, an honest guy and sooooo nice. He told me everything he remembered and he thinks that the brides' brother made it all up. The wedding was delayed, but they eventually got married.
Guess what? 2 months into the marriage, they broke up, he foudn out she was banging her boss for a year at that point & divorced her.
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Posted by Songstress
Whats up with all the DH's who are 'not into strip clubs'![]()
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Mine says he isnt either but he sure enjoyed the strippers at his bparty
i know! i think they just say that... at the end of the day I'm sure they wouldn't turn down a lapdance or two!
mine goes at least once a year when his one friend comes into town. He has never said he's not into strip clubs though.![]()
honestly? Dave has been the tallest person (he's 6'4) in his 'group of friends' since he was 14 years old. He and his friends starting getting into strip clubs when he was 17 and they served him at 18. he spent an ENTIRE SUMMER once at a strip club, every day. he and his best friend claim that the food was good and everyone knew them...so for him & mike - the thrill of a strip club is WAY gone.
