Big blow up

I can count on one hand how many times DH and I have fought in the 6 years together...

Last night - I can add another finger...

And I can't honestly say what the heck we were fighting about... or what started it... it was all yelling, screaming, crying.

We talked this morning - and we are ok.. he says we're both just two very emotional people...and we care too much about eachother and sometimes we vent it out.

I get that.... but now I'm sitting at work...all I want to do is cry. My eyes are puffy and swollen... I feel like crap cause I didn't sleep last night... I wish I could go home.. I wish I stayed in bed...

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Sorry mama!! Everything will be better tonight!! Try to take a half day today and go home and rest!!!

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so sorry im sure thigns tonight will be a lot better... we all have our moments.....

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i'm sorry that you're feeling that way right now but it's good that you guys talked it out this morning. i think all marriages have their ups and downs and that's what helps build and strenghten relationships. hopefully you guys let it all out, whatever it was, and that it wont be an issue in the future

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Posted by CarolAnn721

Sorry mama!! Everything will be better tonight!! Try to take a half day today and go home and rest!!!

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ITA! Rest is definitely going to help.

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Posted by CarolAnn721

Sorry mama!! Everything will be better tonight!! Try to take a half day today and go home and rest!!!

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ITA! Rest is definitely going to help.

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This... Sorry sweetie.

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Thanks all.....

I think I am going to try to take a 1/2 day.. .cause I'm really good for nothing today...

DH called (he does every morning) to say 'Good Morning and I love you' and I burst into tears. Oy!

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we all fight - I mean 2 ppl living together cant always get along 100% its just not possible. the important thing is to treat it as a moment and not take it too hard.
me and DH fight all the time and each time we learn how better communicate so whatever idiotic thing that led to the latest fight wont happen again.
try laugh it off how stupid the 2 of u were last night - this always does the trick for us. humor is the best medicine

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We all go through the fights- Saturday DH and I had a huge blow up also.
I agree with the other girls. take a 1/2 day go home and get some rest.

And just think of the make-up s e x tonight!!

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Posted by dctead

Thanks all.....

I think I am going to try to take a 1/2 day.. .cause I'm really good for nothing today...

DH called (he does every morning) to say 'Good Morning and I love you' and I burst into tears. Oy!

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awww what a good DH

DH and I rarely have fights like that too but when we do we are both a mess for a bit. definitely not a great feeling but I'm glad to hear you guys talked it out!

yes, take a half day! blame your puiffy eyes on bad allergic reaction!

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Sorry love! Hope with each hour that goes by you're feeling better and better!

As most everyone has said - fights happen! I have a hard time getting over things sometimes so this comes from experience...try to let it go! You guys spoke this morning and he called as he usually does so learn from the blow up (if there is anything to learn!), move on, get some rest and love on your man!

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aw hun!
I hate when that happens. I am happy that you got to talk better this morning.

maybe on your lunch go and get a mani or do something for you - that always makes me feel better

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sometimes, for whatever reason, we have to explode like that to get everything off of our systems. Doesnt' mean we hate each other or anything...it just happens.
its good that you guys already talked it out and are better - even though you still don't feel 100%
tonight will be better...you'll see!