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BIG news to share...

Original post by jtgarsik

No i'm not pregnant lol

**And i apologize in advance if this is really long...but i have a lot to say & am ATTEMPTING to keep it short!

So as you know, a WHILE back I had posed some questions about the coast guard.. While I WAS indeed asking for my friend who’s fiancé was interested, the main reason was for me..The truth is Josh had been looking into it first, and with that, my friend’s fiancé gained an interest. I apologize for not being 100% honest, but it was only because it was before anything became serious & I have friends along with family who frequent this site..i didn’t want anything as serious as that getting out to my family when we weren’t even going ahead with anything..

So anyway, my news is that yes – Josh is indeed in the process of joining the U.S. Coast Guard! I really am truly excited & so proud beyond words along with our entire family. At the beginning I initially freaked because I didn’t know much about it…all I knew was what I THOUGHT I knew(which was pretty much all dead wrong lol)..and I also thought this was something completely out of left field as well.. However after lots of prayers & lots of research, I came to know that it really is a wonderful thing with much more pros than cons (and if you’d like to know them feel free to fm )..there are some things that are similar to that of the other branches of the military(the moves), but all in all, it really is quite different. After doing our homework for weeks, really digging into research, talking to friends and family that are actually IN the coast guard(not just recruiters), searching blogs, chat boards, and having long disgussions with josh – we are moving forward I can honestly say we educated ourselves on every single decision and really feel good about everything...This is also something that Josh has wanted since he was really young, and is now making it become a reality. And regardless of all that, it is something that not only is going to give us a rock solid future(whether he stays in or gets out) but is also something he truly feels that he’s meant to be doing.

Right now, we are still in the process of getting everything finalized…he passed all his medical stuff and his ASVAB test..i am so proud of him for this because it was something he was so nervous about…for the CG you need a very high score to pass, and not only did he pass – but the score he got makes him eligible for any job he wants to go after Right now, he has about 2 1/2 weeks to lose the 6lbs that puts him over his weight % to height, and after that we will get the go ahead for the next few steps before heading to bootcamp. He will be in bootcamp for 8weeks where we’ll have no contact…no phonecalls, emails…only letters..but when those 2months are said & done, we will be on the adventure of a lifetime I’m asking you all for your prayers & good wishes over the next few weeks…just that things go smoothly as it’s a very tedious process.. but so far so good! I will of COURSE keep you all updated now that the word is out lol..and if any of you have any questions, or would like to talk, ask me more, etc. feel free to fm or send me a message on facebook! I just wanted to update all my girls & tell you about the great things we have unfolding for us..LOTS of big life changes, but exciting ones at that... it is something that is really great & am really proud of
Espo22 Posted:

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that is awesome Taryn, Congrats to your Dh and hope he truly is happy with this decision, great that he found something he can do that he will love. Wish him the best of luck

jtgarsik Posted:

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Posted by Jesaroo2

As a military wife I applaud you for helping your husband towards a very selfless desision. There will be times that you hate the military and will be sick of it but it really does out way the bad when I think about the service my husband has done for our country. I am always so proud of him and proud to be an army wife(which I believe is sometimes a harder job then the job as a soldier)

Please feel free to message me on facebook, I have been through it all and the time apart is hard but it makes you grow closer also. Military wives have to stick together so anything you need I am here. I have a wonderful family and wonderful friends but the support and comfort you find in a fellow military wife is a different kind of support because they know exactly what you feel and are thinking


My husband is away right now on training lol



Thankyou so much jess - i truly appreciate you putting urself out there for me! i am SURE i will be touch with lots of questions when all of this goes full throttle.. And i'm sure i'll need someone to talk to/hang with when he's away(and it'll be great to have someone who's actually been there/going through it!). After doing a TON of research, talking to many CG wives, and my uncle who's been in for 25yrs, i'm eased to know that CG memebers can't really be away for TOO long, or go outside the U.S. unless they go voluntarily..which obviously made me feel a little better! lol again - thanku for the support, encouragement, etc! i'll let u know when things are definetly a go & his bc date is set!
jtgarsik Posted:

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...and i just wanted to thank ALL of you for the support & positive encouragement - it truly means a lot! i will keep you all updated as we move along the process! Starting today i started dh on a health kick to drop those 6lbs
TommysWife08 Posted:

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WOW! thats great for you guys for coming to a very important decision!!

i dont know MUCH about the CG... my best friend's hubby is in the army, so i know a lot about that end of the military

can i ask you something - and i hope this doesnt come out wrong... like i said, i dont know a lot so i am curious!!

besides always wanting to join the CG since he was little - what are the benifits to joining? like, what is so inticing (sp?) about the CG that made your DH want to join? is it the same as joining the army - like, do they eventually pay for school and stuff?

im really curious b/c i dont know much about any other branch of the military
jtgarsik Posted:

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Posted by TommysWife08

WOW! thats great for you guys for coming to a very important decision!!

i dont know MUCH about the CG... my best friend's hubby is in the army, so i know a lot about that end of the military

can i ask you something - and i hope this doesnt come out wrong... like i said, i dont know a lot so i am curious!!

besides always wanting to join the CG since he was little - what are the benifits to joining? like, what is so inticing (sp?) about the CG that made your DH want to join? is it the same as joining the army - like, do they eventually pay for school and stuff?

im really curious b/c i dont know much about any other branch of the military



sending u some fm!
TommysWife08 Posted:

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Posted by jtgarsik


sending u some fm!



oh great thanks!

and PS - i totally thought you were preggo too!
futuremrsfab Posted:

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Congrats Taryn! Thats so exciting- best of luck to Josh & you!

SB7308 Posted:

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thats awesome!!!!!!!!!!

Good luck to both of you and def. keep us updated!!!!
TrueLoveIn2008 Posted:

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Very, very happy for you guys!!!!!!!
FinallyEngaged Posted:

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Congrats and Lots-o-Luck!!!!!
bluekat16 Posted:

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Congrats to you and Josh on this great news.
HamptonsBride Posted:

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That is awesome!!! Congrats to you & DH on your new adventure...i had always thought about joining the Coast Guard!!! One of my academy classmates did it and enjoyed it...best wishes and hope bootcamp goes by quickly for both of you!!!
agraydc Posted:

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Posted by TommysWife08

WOW! thats great for you guys for coming to a very important decision!!

i dont know MUCH about the CG... my best friend's hubby is in the army, so i know a lot about that end of the military

can i ask you something - and i hope this doesnt come out wrong... like i said, i dont know a lot so i am curious!!

besides always wanting to join the CG since he was little - what are the benifits to joining? like, what is so inticing (sp?) about the CG that made your DH want to join? is it the same as joining the army - like, do they eventually pay for school and stuff?

im really curious b/c i dont know much about any other branch of the military



congrats and good luck......

and i too know absolutely nothing about the CG but would love to hear about your research.......if you have the time....please share....TIA
cbcf Posted:

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Congratulations to your DH and you as Taryn. You must be sooo proud of him. That is wonderful news.

My Dh had always wanted to be a Marine so when that time came for him to join it wasn't a shock. But Boot Camp was hard to get through with no contact. But you will definitely make it through with the support and love of your family and friends. Those are the people that are always there for you. However, it is great to have others who are similar or the same situation as you. As you know my husband is in the Marines and we went through 4 years of him being away. It is hard but not for the one you love. But being able to talk to others that were in that situation helped me get through it as well. So if you ever need a listening ear or someone to give you advice, help, prayers, support etc. I am always an FM away or you can message me on facebook.

You are definitely going to be entering into a new journey of life, but it will be a great one, stressful, hard, and probably a little scary at times...but you have each other to lean on throughout it all.

Congrats again and good luck to your husband. Let him know we are all proud of him!!!!!
AR31 Posted:

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congrats taryn! such a huge decision.. best wishes to you and your DH!
Jenn04 Posted:

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Oh wow! CONGRATS! I knew something was cooking due to your FB comments but wasnt sure yet. I am so happy for you guys!

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