Bored and looking up lingerie ideas for bpics (ETA: may be : NSFW lingerie pics inside)

first i want to say it SUX BALLS to be a fat girl trying to find 'sexy lingerie' -- i'm growing bitter and I swear I'm on the verge of cancelling my freaking bpics. don't lingerie designers understand i want to maximize my boobs and minimize my stomach and look super hot at the same time?

(yeah i should be on my knees....praying for that miracle)

Fredericks has this in ginormous size for me---who knows if it will truly fit though:

But it would be in RED


or perhaps something like this?


ugh i can't FIND ANYTHING that fits! maybe i'm not destined to do this shiiiit.



pity party over.

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Posted by kellybean

you should and you are....I like both pics however I know if i wore the white one I would have tummy flab where it ended if that makes sense....I absolutely love the second one........You so can do this and they are going to be hot a DH will love them !!!!!! Dont cancel,.....want me to post some pics of stuff I have found? it may help

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yeah i'm worried about tummy flab too.

post away---i need alllll the help i can get

I LOVE, LOVE the second one and I am sure that it will look great on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am no skinny minny myself and my sister got me some nice stuff for my shower online. If you would like I can ask her where she got my lingerie from when I see her later.

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Posted by kellybean

you should and you are....I like both pics however I know if i wore the white one I would have tummy flab where it ended if that makes sense....I absolutely love the second one........You so can do this and they are going to be hot a DH will love them !!!!!! Dont cancel,.....want me to post some pics of stuff I have found? it may help

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as long as u get the white one in ur true size there should be no 'belly flab'...a lot of girls will order sizes that are just simple a tad too tight, and thats what leaves for the flab. if it fits u should be nice & smooth! AND OMG IN RED?!?!?!!! u're gonna be one sexy mama!

Mel what about getting one that has a little flare to it? You want to minimize right? One of the ones I wore really tucked in but it had a little ruffle that I thought would make mu hips look even wider but it had the opposite effect. it was the red and black one in the b pics.

DONT go for shorter stuff. I think even in your correct size, that first one will not be very forgiiving. It needs to eb an inch or so longer and the point thing can emphasis belly cause it creates a funny cut. better to get one that is straight across. Second one is REALLY cute though!

You want to look sleek and it WILL happen. Photographer's know how to work with women of all sizes but you need to know what works for you.

I have an idea btw..not 'linberie' per say but it could look HOT!

Get a long ankle length satin rib or a chiffon one. Check the Sales racks at macy-s thats where I got mine for my honemoon for 20 bucks. The thinne r the material, the better because you want it to really drape over you.

In essence you would wear it nekkid. Wait hear me out! LOL.

Imagine laying on your side, sorta propped up a little with the robe on but the fabric is so thin it molds to your curves yet float away and conceals what you want it to...in the front you'd leave it untied enough to flash the cleavage or a leg..whatever. And with a sultry, come-hither look..HOT! And if you get a semi sheer one that can show teh lines of your body beneath it, EVEN better!

It would look even hotter than skimpy lingerie because then you're playing 'peek-a-boo' in essence and I know all my guy friends tell me they LOVE when a pretty girl covers up a little becasue then they wonder what she is hiding under there..Make the DH wonder Mel!

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Posted by PeteysBride

Mel what about getting one that has a little flare to it? You want to minimize right? One of the ones I wore really tucked in but it had a little ruffle that I thought would make mu hips look even wider but it had the opposite effect. it was the red and black one in the b pics.

DONT go for shorter stuff. I think even in your correct size, that first one will not be very forgiiving. It needs to eb an inch or so longer and the point thing can emphasis belly cause it creates a funny cut. better to get one that is straight across. Second one is REALLY cute though!

You want to look sleek and it WILL happen. Photographer's know how to work with women of all sizes but you need to know what works for you.

I have an idea btw..not 'linberie' per say but it could look HOT!

Get a long ankle length satin rib or a chiffon one. Check the Sales racks at macy-s thats where I got mine for my honemoon for 20 bucks. The thinne r the material, the better because you want it to really drape over you.

In essence you would wear it nekkid. Wait hear me out! LOL.

Imagine laying on your side, sorta propped up a little with the robe on but the fabric is so thin it molds to your curves yet float away and conceals what you want it to...in the front you'd leave it untied enough to flash the cleavage or a leg..whatever. And with a sultry, come-hither look..>HOT!

It would look even hotter than skimpy lingerie because then you're playing 'peek-a-boo' in essence and I know all my guy friends tell me they LOVE when a pretty girl covers up a little becasue then they wonder what she is hiding under there..Make the DH wonder Mel!

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see my problem is that stuff i'm finding for plus sized gals aren't things that i think would look good on me. i can't tell you how many chemises or baby dolls i see that have see thru areas in the fron where the belly is--and NO bra support for my boobs. its killing me and making me so damnn angry.

i have plenty of stuff at home---little night gown and stuff---but getting it to actually photograph well is more of a challenge...hence my frustration.

like i've seen a LOT of boudoir photos lately of people of all sizes and i see in a bunch how there are some things that people use in their pics that they think look great---but aren't photographing as nice. i just don't want that to happen to me! ugh--i hate this crap. maybe i'm PMSing--i'm so bitter right now

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Posted by kellybean

I have this and it has awesome boob support

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this is great because the point isn't so drastic(yes it still has an angle to give a slimmer illusion vs. STRAIGHT across which can make u look wider..) & it's a TEENY bit longer..

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Posted by kellybean

I have this and it has awesome boob support

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oooo where'd you get that from!?

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by kellybean

I have this and it has awesome boob support

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oooo where'd you get that from!?

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fredricks

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Posted by kellybean

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by kellybean

I have this and it has awesome boob support

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oooo where'd you get that from!?

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fredricks

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dangit -- they sure dont' have it in the plus sized section now

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by kellybean

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by kellybean

I have this and it has awesome boob support

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oooo where'd you get that from!?

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fredricks

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dangit -- they sure dont' have it in the plus sized section now

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I got it in the store broadway mall I believe ....Im going there tonight I can pop in and see what they have and let you know tommorow if u want

Mel i tennd to think you're really beating yourself up...Don't go for impossible goals because you will get frustrated. You're not going to eb able to wear as many styles of lingerie as some girls. You know that because you're fuller figured. So DONT compare yourself to them. try to look sexy in what works for you...You're a hot girl with a great smile and you will look sexy as hell. Just take a breath.

Corsets lock and load. cami's with cute boy shorts and stockings look HOT and high heels. Do what works for you and don't compare yourself to other women because it won't work. That was like when i was comparing myself to women with no hips that could look much sleeker than I did in certain outfits. Flaunt what you got....



whats wrong with stuff like this?

Hips and curves.com

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Posted by PeteysBride



whats wrong with stuff like this?

Hips and curves.com

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the sizing. unfortunately my stomach is too huge for the corsets.

they only go up to a size '44' -- and my bust alone is about a size 42-43---but my problem is the tummy...the corset is designed to fit larger around the bust and then smaller in the waist -- like a normal person can be shaped.

unfortunately the last corset i ordered from h&c was a size 42' -- and i shiit you not when i say it was a good 8' too small in the middle--i couldn't even close the eye hooks in the front.

those might be a little better cause of the stretchy material---i'm waiting for my return to go thru from the blue/white corset i showed you guys. not sure if i want to try those or get the largest size possible of the blue/white corset



ETA: i bought those rumba panties in the second pic--they are adorable--but the cami doesn't give boob support---so they look very saggy in it.

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Posted by MJDoc12

the sizing. unfortunately my stomach is too huge for the corsets.

they only go up to a size '44' -- and my bust alone is about a size 42-43---but my problem is the tummy...the corset is designed to fit larger around the bust and then smaller in the waist -- like a normal person can be shaped.

unfortunately the last corset i ordered from h&c was a size 42' -- and i shiit you not when i say it was a good 8' too small in the middle--i couldn't even close the eye hooks in the front.

those might be a little better cause of the stretchy material---i'm waiting for my return to go thru from the blue/white corset i showed you guys. not sure if i want to try those or get the largest size possible of the blue/white corset

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Hmm ok back to the darwing board..what about mesh corsets? I found those to work much better for me like the black lace one I wore. The ones that laced just were tooo tight by the hips but huge by my bust so they didnt work. But the one with the eye hook nack worked well.

Remember lingerie is only one aspect..use props too..Girl use your SHEETS! Wrap em around you exposing just enough and its HOT. Remmeber they will also be takign detail shots that are flattering-like just the side of your body or the curve of your butt etc.

What about investing ina few really cute cami and boy short combos?

ETA LOVE the panties. Hmm what about wearing one of those convertible bras beaneath? Strapless but they have the clear straps to keep it up. Might eb worth the money to invest in a really good supportive bra and if its pretty, you kill two birds with one stone.

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Posted by PeteysBride

Hmm ok back to the darwing board..what about mesh corsets? I found those to work much better for me like the black lace one I wore. The ones that laced just were tooo tight by the hips but huge by my bust so they didnt work. But the one with the eye hook nack worked well.

Remember lingerie is only one aspect..use props too..Girl use your SHEETS! Wrap em around you exposing just enough and its HOT. Remmeber they will also be takign detail shots that are flattering-like just the side of your body or the curve of your butt etc.

What about investing ina few really cute cami and boy short combos?

ETA LOVE the panties. Hmm what about wearing one of those convertible bras beaneath? Strapless but they have the clear straps to keep it up. Might eb worth the money to invest in a really good supportive bra and if its pretty, you kill two birds with one stone.

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well i know i have time---i'm just getting annoyed at my choices being 'plus sized' -- what can ya do. i think my PMS is causing me to require shameless bouts of self pity.