Day After Blues?

Original post by Jordan

Aug 01, 2003 11:00 AM

I hope it's ok for me to post here...

I was talking with 2 co-workers yesterday and they told me about their 'Day After Blues' and I was wondering how common this was? Did anyone else experience a sense of loss or sadness (much like post partum, it was described) the day after your wedding? For one of the women, she only experienced it after her first marriage. I thought it was interesting as I had never thought I'd feel sad...

jennbaby Posted: Aug 01, 2003 10:43 PM

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I did a little. I remember Tara on here, was the day after me & I though, how lucky she was to be having her wedding. I wanted to do my day again!

Then when we got home from the hotel, I was so excited it was over & I was so looking foward to escaping for 2 weeks to the HM, and that we were finally MARRIED!

jessnjoey Posted: Aug 01, 2003 11:21 PM

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I was very happy the day after...and even during the honeymoon...but I cried the last night on our honeymoon...
we drove back to Vegas from LA to catch a red eye and we had some time to kill so we watched the fountains one last time...I cried when he kissed me!!! It was so sad that our dream wedding adn honeymoon were over..
He of course told me I was crazy b/c we have so much to look forward to in the future! and he's right.
Although secretly I still wish we could do it again!!!

nycchic_24 Posted: Aug 02, 2003 02:30 AM

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I guess im the miniority here...the blues wasnt even the word!!!!!!!!! I was soo depressed...I cried when we got to the hotel cause everything was over and my dress was hanging there all wrinkled and dirty.

Our hm was nice but I was still depressed...towards the middle of it I got better but when we got home..omg..it was the worst. Such an adjustment and everywhere I looked, it was all wedding stuff. I went from being a princess to just average again and to be honest I didnt like it at all!

Only now am I starting to get over it to be honest. I dont know why. I loved the planning and I loved the day. I would do everything 8954587 times over again if I could..I know a lot of you wouldnt agree with me but thats how I feel.