do u girlies feel it?

i call it POST TRAUMATIC WEDDING DISORDER...lol i was actually a lil sad after the wedding was over even when i went on my honeymoon....its better now that im home but i kinda feel out of place going on the 07 and bhb boards....anyone feel like this when they just got married?

yes, I felt like that BADLY when we first got married- I really missed the planning and the excitement, but that 'feeling' does 'go away' or lessens at least- You will find the excitement in other things-home buying/decorating/babies-other weddings/everything else that goes along with being married!

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Posted by july06bride

yes, I felt like that BADLY when we first got married- I really missed the planning and the excitement, but that 'feeling' does 'go away' or lessens at least- You will find the excitement in other things-home buying/decorating/babies-other weddings/everything else that goes along with being married!

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thank u for that bc i really needed to know that i wasn't the only one that felt like this

OMG I was so depressed, I cried for a whole week. I missed the whole planning and the whole day of getting my hair and makeup done then slipping into my gown. I don't miss the stress at all. i do get alittle jealous reading the 07 post of brides getting ready for their big day

I married my best friend and that makes all of the pain go away

Jen I am in the same boat. I want to have the day all over. It all went soooo fast. I was the last wedding in my group of friends for now. I am trying to get my other gf's engaged just so I can help plan someones wedding.

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Posted by autumn

OMG I was so depressed, I cried for a whole week. I missed the whole planning and the whole day of getting my hair and makeup done then slipping into my gown. I don't miss the stress at all. i do get alittle jealous reading the 07 post of brides getting ready for their big day

I married my best friend and that makes all of the pain go away

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oh my goodnessssssssssssss this is exactly what i feel....i lovvvvvvvvvvve that i dont have to fight with dh or stress over stupidity BUT im soooo jealous of what an awesommmmmmmmmmme day it really was and i cant do it again....this sounds soooo dumb right nowbut thats how i feel

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Posted by FDWedding07

Jen I am in the same boat. I want to have the day all over. It all went soooo fast. I was the last wedding in my group of friends for now. I am trying to get my other gf's engaged just so I can help plan someones wedding.

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Cathleen!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Harry was my Maitr'd and he said that a liw bride told him to tell me to have a great day....would that have happened to be uuuuu?????

and as for my post omgggggggggg isnt this depressing though....im soooooooo freakin happy to be married donot get me wrong i lovvvvvvvve dh! (weirdness that its dh and not fh lol) BUT i told dh that one day he's gonna come home and im gonna be on the couch with the dress on watching tv now that will bring it all back and make me feel better

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Posted by JenMike331

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Posted by FDWedding07

Jen I am in the same boat. I want to have the day all over. It all went soooo fast. I was the last wedding in my group of friends for now. I am trying to get my other gf's engaged just so I can help plan someones wedding.

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Cathleen!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Harry was my Maitr'd and he said that a liw bride told him to tell me to have a great day....would that have happened to be uuuuu?????

and as for my post omgggggggggg isnt this depressing though....im soooooooo freakin happy to be married donot get me wrong i lovvvvvvvve dh! (weirdness that its dh and not fh lol) BUT i told dh that one day he's gonna come home and im gonna be on the couch with the dress on watching tv now that will bring it all back and make me feel better

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It was me!! He said he had another wedding the next night. I asked if it was yours and he said it was. We lucked out with weather!! Our weekend was beautiful. I feel like I have not seen the sun since my honeymoon. I still think we should all have a party where we get to wear our dresses again and look all pretty.

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Posted by FDWedding07

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Posted by JenMike331

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Posted by FDWedding07

Jen I am in the same boat. I want to have the day all over. It all went soooo fast. I was the last wedding in my group of friends for now. I am trying to get my other gf's engaged just so I can help plan someones wedding.

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Cathleen!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Harry was my Maitr'd and he said that a liw bride told him to tell me to have a great day....would that have happened to be uuuuu?????

and as for my post omgggggggggg isnt this depressing though....im soooooooo freakin happy to be married donot get me wrong i lovvvvvvvve dh! (weirdness that its dh and not fh lol) BUT i told dh that one day he's gonna come home and im gonna be on the couch with the dress on watching tv now that will bring it all back and make me feel better

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It was me!! He said he had another wedding the next night. I asked if it was yours and he said it was. We lucked out with weather!! Our weekend was beautiful. I feel like I have not seen the sun since my honeymoon. I still think we should all have a party where we get to wear our dresses again and look all pretty.

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u r tooooooooo cute!!!!!!!!!!! u know everyone is saying the same thing about how we lucked out with beautiful weather....it was gorgeous on our day...it really was....no complaints...sooooooooo did u start ur review yet?....i know i didnt i will definitely start once i get my proofs back from the photographer

Hi ladies!

I don't know if I'm breaching any LIW rules but I was lurking on your board for the exact opposite reason of how you girls feel... I just can't wait to be a newlywed! lol I don't want to have to wait until '08 to marry the love of my life The planning is so stressful...

If it helps you any, we can ALWAYS use all your help and expertise on the planning boards... You will always be welcome there...

I'm pretty clueless with all this stuff... So it helps to get advice from someone who's been through it...

Thanks and I will go back to my side of the fence... for now at least lol

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Posted by MrsT08

Hi ladies!

I don't know if I'm breaching any LIW rules but I was lurking on your board for the exact opposite reason of how you girls feel... I just can't wait to be a newlywed! lol I don't want to have to wait until '08 to marry the love of my life The planning is so stressful...

If it helps you any, we can ALWAYS use all your help and expertise on the planning boards... You will always be welcome there...

I'm pretty clueless with all this stuff... So it helps to get advice from someone who's been through it...

Thanks and I will go back to my side of the fence... for now at least lol

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you say this now - wait until its all over.

YES, I had it for quite a few months and felt terrible about it!!!!!! Turns out it's quite normal. With all of the excitement and anticipation leading up to a weddiing it comes as a bit of a shock and let-down when all-of-a-sudden it's over.

The only thing that got me through it was time and having other things fill that void. We started house hunting and I felt a lot better about our wedding being over. You have to focus on the wonderful day that you had and the many future days that you'll have together filled with bigger and better!!

I am so glad you posted this I thought something was wrong with me!! I called it Post Wedding Depression. We only had a 3 month engagement so I enjoyed planning and was not tired of all the running around. I still can't believe it is all over.
The week after our wedding was a nightmare. Dh and I did not go away since his whole family flew over for the wedding, We were tour guides walking around NYC with a huge group of 17. Then my mom was in the hospiatl for a week his mom had to be taken to the ER. If anything could have gone wrong it did. The worst was the day I went back to work. Now that we have our apartment all set up and life is back to normal I have 'gotten better'. I will host group therapy if you like.

Yesterday we drove by the church and a wedding was on. DH asked me if I could handle driving by.

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Posted by futuremrsGafforio

YESSSSSSSS..... I live close to Jericho Terrace and everytime I see a bride, I want to cry!!

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omgoodnesssssssssssss!!!!!!!! i know and i have kcion's wedding this friday night at north ritz club....im actually soooooooo excited i never was but i wanna feel that excitement through her this is just pithetic

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Posted by mtdr1106

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Posted by MrsT08

Hi ladies!

I don't know if I'm breaching any LIW rules but I was lurking on your board for the exact opposite reason of how you girls feel... I just can't wait to be a newlywed! lol I don't want to have to wait until '08 to marry the love of my life The planning is so stressful...

If it helps you any, we can ALWAYS use all your help and expertise on the planning boards... You will always be welcome there...

I'm pretty clueless with all this stuff... So it helps to get advice from someone who's been through it...

Thanks and I will go back to my side of the fence... for now at least lol

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you say this now - wait until its all over.

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exactly!

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Posted by cindyandkevin

YES, I had it for quite a few months and felt terrible about it!!!!!! Turns out it's quite normal. With all of the excitement and anticipation leading up to a weddiing it comes as a bit of a shock and let-down when all-of-a-sudden it's over.

The only thing that got me through it was time and having other things fill that void. We started house hunting and I felt a lot better about our wedding being over. You have to focus on the wonderful day that you had and the many future days that you'll have together filled with bigger and better!!

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see thats exactly what im doing now.....real estate websites used to be shopping websites....then wedding websites now real estate....just trying to 'fill the void' like u said

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Posted by MeNBobs

I am so glad you posted this I thought something was wrong with me!! I called it Post Wedding Depression. We only had a 3 month engagement so I enjoyed planning and was not tired of all the running around. I still can't believe it is all over.
The week after our wedding was a nightmare. Dh and I did not go away since his whole family flew over for the wedding, We were tour guides walking around NYC with a huge group of 17. Then my mom was in the hospiatl for a week his mom had to be taken to the ER. If anything could have gone wrong it did. The worst was the day I went back to work. Now that we have our apartment all set up and life is back to normal I have 'gotten better'. I will host group therapy if you like.

Yesterday we drove by the church and a wedding was on. DH asked me if I could handle driving by.

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OMG U R ADORABLE!....at least i know that some March brides are feeling it too....I'm sooooooooo glad I posted this too bc I needed to know I wasn't being dumb or worse going crazy